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Your perception, your belief about aging has a monumental impact
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on your physical health. In fact, those who had negative
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or embraced mentally negative stereotypes about aging had a seven
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point five year reduction in life span versus those who
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had more positive impression of aging. And that about nails it.
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People look, feel and live look and feel less good
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than they ought to and live shorter lives than they
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ought to because of mindset.
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In this regard, what if the biggest threat to your
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health isn't aging itself, but what you believe about aging. Today,
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I sit down with Brian vasilely Boundar of the Art
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of Anti Aging, to explore how our beliefs shape our longevity,
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why most of what we've been taught about getting older
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is wrong, and how mindset, no plasticity and everyday habits
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can help us stay vibrant, healthy and thriving for decades
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longer than we think. I'm really happy to be here
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today with Brian Vasily. Welcome, Brian, Thank you so much.
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I'm excited to be here. So I'm going to share
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your bio and then we'll jump right in.
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Sound good sounds like a good plan.
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Okay, Brian Vasily is a renowned leader, researcher, and advocate
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in healthy aging and longevity with over twenty years of experience.
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He's the founder of the artof Antiaging dot com, a
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leading health platform with over five hundred thousand members dedicated
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to empowering individuals with evidence based natural solutions to avoid
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and overcome disease, live long, and thrive. Brian also hosts
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the Art of Anti Aging's widely respected healthy Aging summits,
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which have positively impacted millions of lives. In addition to
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his work and Healthy Aging, Brian is the founder of
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Purity Woods, one of today's fastest growing certified organic skincare
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and supplement companies. Throughout his career, he has collaborated closely
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with top mds and researchers, distilling their insights into actionable
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steps that are both clear and compelling. Brian's influencer sends
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beyond Healthy as an interestingly acclaimed author, speaker, and life
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and business coach. He's also the founder of Intense Experiences
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dot com, a leading site for positive transformation, and One World,
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One Book dot com, a global book club uniting readers
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to discuss great literature and support charitable causes. Obviously, you're
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quite a renaissance figure with diverse interests and activities. That's wonderful.
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Yeah. Well, I do have to note a couple of
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those last ones you put out there. Those are past
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ventures that were great adventures, but intense experiences is retired,
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although people will find all that material still out there. Yeah,
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one world one book that was an interesting adventure, but
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I don't believe people will find that one any more. However,
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the art of anti aging, dot Com and Purity Woods
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are alive and thriving. So yeah, yeah, wow, you really
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went into my background there. That's awesome.
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All right, Well, thank you for clarifying that. So as
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we get started with our conversation here about your work
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and about the art of anti aging, I wonder if
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you could give us just a little bit of your
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origin story. I think it's always helpful for the audience
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to see, you know, how did you end up in
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this whole world of longevity and anti aging?
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Yeah? Absolutely so. Well, I am currently fifty four and
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you can probably slice my life down the middle almost
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and the first half was really quite rough by anyone's definitions.
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Fleet So I grew up in inner city Chicago in
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a pretty rough neighborhood. I lost friends to gangs, and
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you know, it was just kind of an environment where
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I always had to watch my back on the outside.
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But far more well traumatic it was the fact that
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my father was a good man until around my age
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of nine years old. He then became severely alcoholic and
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severely abusive to me, to my sister, to my mother,
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and I can get into the what and why of that.
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He had a fascinating life, but a very hard life,
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and he did not deal effectively with some very serious
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traumas he faced. He lost his first wife. They got
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an argument and he watched as she stepped out of
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the car angry, and that truck hit her and killed her.
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He lost his son from his previous marriage to my
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mother when I was just three. I didn't know my
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that half brother who was hit by a car while
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riding a bike and killed. He was a World War
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two spy for the United States who you know, was
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in Germany during World War II seeing all of that,
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and he interestingly fell in love with a woman who
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turned out to be a Russian spy and they were
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going to get married, and then one day she was
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just disappeared and he never saw again, so fascinating life.
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A lot of good in his life too, I'm sure,
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but he didn't deal effectively with these traumas and carried
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it over to us, you know, by hitting the bottle
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and then you know, being rather abusive to us. So
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I dealt with that for years, and then to his credit,
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he finally did kick the bottle fleet. But then he
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spent the last ten years of his life essentially dying
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inside of more than outside of hospitals. So I witnessed
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the medical care system even as a older child and
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young man. I watched my mom almost end up on
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the bed next to him because she fought this medical
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care system extensively for years. They were essentially experimenting on
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my father with drugs and different approaches and making him suffer.
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And worst of all, you know what people hear about
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medical mistakes is quite true and beyond she thought and
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fought and caught so many mistakes. So I was there
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with her, My sister was there with her during this period.
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A lot of time. She spent the last six years
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of his life in a hospital, three hospitals, really dying.
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And you know, I just experienced, you know, a lot
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of education slash trauma during that period as well. So
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when I'm a young man at that point, I became
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a very young father myself, and you know, to my
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wife at that time and my credit, we did push
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through and go to you know, college full time. I
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went to college full time while I worked full time
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and raised a baby, and so did she. And it
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was a really rough years. I was super poor. I
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lived in a with my wife at the time and
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our baby in a studio apartment where I couldn't I
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had to choose between keeping the lights on another month
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or food on the table. Sometimes couldn't afford a bed.
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We slept on my twin mattresses and box springs from
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my youth for a while there, and mice would come
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and wake me up in the middle of the night.
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Rough So, long story short on this is that I
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experienced a lot of depression and anxiety in my young ears.
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And there's one single factor that kept me alive, because
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I had suicidal thoughts that kept me alive, and in fact,
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they are the reason I'm thriving today, and that is
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powerful women. Women have played this monumental role in my
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life more so than than they do in all of
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our lives. Of course, starting with our own mothers, right,
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But in my life I have them to thank for
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sitting here talking to you today, and that includes I'm
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going to tear up, but I won't have a wonderful mother,
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an angel of the mother still, you know, Thank goodness,
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you know here with us today. A grandmother who's still
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with us, she's one hundred and four years old. A
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sister who is wonderful, and so on, and certain teachers
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and others. They all happen to be women. So now
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fast forward just a bit. So I am done with
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the college and have a baby, you know, at home
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and my wife, and so I need to get a job.
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My first job, real job, really, I guess I should
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say second real job was in communications for a company
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on the other side, a pharmaceutical corporation in the pharmaceutical industry.
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I will just say that, and I will just say
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this that all of people's frustrations and concerns slash fears
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about the pharmaceutical industry are largely true and beyond people
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don't know the half of it. I saw a lot
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in that role, and I couldn't wait to get out,
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But I had to maintain in order to put food
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on the table, etc. For quite some time. So do
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a little fast forwarding again, and way back when, now
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we're talking twenty years plus ago, a doctor and I
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saw what he was trying to do here, and I
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started having some conversations. He's a very controversial figure. I'm
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always a bit uneasy about bringing this up because people
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love him or hate him. And who am I talking about.
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I'm talking about a gentleman by the name of Joe Mercola,
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who way back then, you know, had a very you know,
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small following, But I knew the message he was trying
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to put out there was essentially, take control of your
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own health. And this is long before folks like you know,
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most folks out there, you know, who are in this
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wonderful space today where we're trying to empower people with
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evidence space solutions to look feel their best lived long
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avoid disease. This long before, this was at the very
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start of the Internet, I guess you can almost say,
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because it really was at least the prevalence of the Internet.
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And I was with Mercola, Joe and I for four
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and a half years and before I parted ways with him,
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and we grew that and so I was then exposed
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to during the course of all that, a lot of
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wonderful health and wellness mds and practitioners who were trying
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to break free of the conventional mode. And you know,
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so for years I helped others behind the scenes, and
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then as you alluded to, I became more of a
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personal development brand almost myself for a while. It's called
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Intense Experiences, and did quite well with all of that,
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delved more so into the emotional and mental aspect of
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things and learned a lot there. Had a big best
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selling book out of that called The Nine Intense Experiences.
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It's still out there today. But I was at a
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crossroads Fleet about two thousand and eighteen seventeen eighteen. I
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was at a good crossroads. I can make a different
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choices where I'm going to take my life, but propelled
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to do one thing because I was watching Fleet as
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some very pervasive nonsense myths were impacting these women who
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had been so powerful in my own life. And these
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myths are the aging myths, and we can dive into
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that because they're one of the biggest issues out there period.
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If you were going to talk honestly about healthy aging
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and longevity and so these very otherwise powerful women. I
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saw these pervasive myths were negatively impacting them in a
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very physical way in some ways, the idea that getting older,
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when you hit forty, it equals becoming undesirable, incapable, doomed,
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suffering and disease, and you're getting you over the hill
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down you go. Now, all of those years fleet where
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I was working closely with so many different highly respectable,
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wonderful mds were integrative health as they call it, and
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natural health approaches trying to incorporate that I discovered the
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exact opposite is the truth forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, even
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beyond ought to be the best years of people's lives
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from a physical, emotional, mental standpoint. So there was this
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big rift, you know, and I was watching it impact
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even these powerful women in my own life, the belief
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that it's downhill and the fact, based on an incredible
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amount of evidence, that it ought to be the best years.
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And I'm like, I know exactly what I'm going to do.
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In honor of my mother, in honor of my sister,
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in honor of these powerful women, I'm going to start
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an organization the art of anti aging. Dot com is
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what it's now called and I'm just going to put
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out all of these evidence based facts in a very
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easy to comprehend and put into action way for people,
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you know, from all of my peers in the industry,
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from all of the researchers, et cetera. And that's the
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start of the art of anti aging dot com. And
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as you kindly noted, it's now grown to over a
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half million, you know, folks who can go there, sign
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up for our newsletter, get these these insights. And I'm honored.
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I'm honored. And it's driven by by, as you can hear,
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a passion and a mission. So I'm so humbled really
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to be able to reach a lot of people like that.
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Thanks for asking. Yeah, and I hope that was somewhat condensed.
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Hell, you're did a great job with that. Your passion
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is palpable and incredibly moving, and I'm so glad we
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began there with your story. It's so powerful. And so
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you spoke about these myths that you became aware of
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that were impacting these amazing women in your own life,
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and this really ignited that passion of the work you're
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doing today. So and these myths become these cultural, culturally
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reinforced myths become beliefs that we internalize and then show
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up in ways that are actually undermining our health and
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our longevity and so forth. So what are some of
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these key if you had to name two or three
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of these myths or beliefs, what are some of the
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key beliefs you feel that many of us have internalized
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to our own detriment.
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Absolutely well, First one to note that various research has
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been done in this area. One of the most prominent
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researchers got her name is Becca Levy, and you know
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she did research earlier in the two thousands showing that
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your perception, your belief about aging has a monumental impact
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on your physical health. In fact, those who had negative
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or embraced mentally negative stereotypes about aging had a seven
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point five year reduction in life span versus those who
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had more positive impression of aging. And that about nails it.
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People look, feel and live look and feel less good
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than they ought to and live shorter lives than they
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ought to because of mindset in this regard. And it
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is when people ask, and I know they're looking for
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dietary steps, often exercise steps, and those are super vital,
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but when people ask me what's the worst, the worst
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of the worst, or they want to hear the physical toxins,
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which is a monumentally big problem. But I will say
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that's easy. It's mind set about this because it is
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so prevalent in our society. Look at any entity, Hollywood
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and other forms of media. You would think that if
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you came from a different planet, you came here and
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you just watched our media, you would think that the
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vast majority of the population somewhere in their twenties, and
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all the women are, of course, you know, by conventional standards, beautiful,
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and you would think that women in their forties fifty
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sixties must be a very small segment of society. If
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you just looked at the media, you know, it's a
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big place that it starts, or one of the primary
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places that this myth is is pushed. I will also
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tell you though, that because of this myth of aging,
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they all these big institutions that we have to be
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very cautious of, big food, big pharma, big cosmetics and
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personal care products industries. These they play and pray on
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this myth in a very massive way and take advantage,
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frankly of people and make you know untold billions, if
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not trillions of dollars doing so. So it starts and
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and I always like to go very personal with people
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and just say lease in a very mindful way, in
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a very unstressful way. Please truly ideally writing this out
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because we maybe we don't all know, we ought to
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all know that by writing it out. Doesn't matter if
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it sounds good on paper, that's not the point. It's
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just for you. But writing out what you really believe
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getting older means and examining that closely, be honest with yourself.
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Do you believe that you are meant to which biologically
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we are and chronology we're seeing you should live normally
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past ninety seven? You should? You should even if you
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do many things, not all things even, but many things right,
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you should. So those are the years maybe late eighties
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nineties worth where truly you might start slowing down. And
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then of course in the nineties you will start slowing down.
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It's almost inevitable. But you ought to live even past that. Okay,
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But the question is that you ought to ask yourself,
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what do I believe you know? Being forty fifty sixty
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seventy eighties means? What does that mean does that Do
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you believe that means vibrancy deeply and the best years
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of your life? Or do you embrace the myth And
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there's no judgment here, but do you embrace the myth
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to some extent that it's time for you to start
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slowing down? Looking unattractive, feeling less energetic, getting sick is
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more common. Those are all not true, But it's very
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important to assess your beliefs on that because you cannot achieve,
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honestly any other step if you have this massive internal
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emotional block in your way. You could do the best
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diet of all time, exercise your butt off, avoid every
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physical toxin out there, so on and so forth. If
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you have that belief, your belief is telling your brain
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time to die, Time to start dying now, haha. Party
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Stor says over the hill, on all these napkins and balloons,
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And how much do you really embrace that? It's not true.
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I will swear by that to everybody and again at
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the art of anti aging, just like you here we
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try to share with people facts that that is not
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true at all. You really don't need to slow down
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until again, perhaps as perhaps and here I might be
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being a little too liberal, but perhaps your later eighties.
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Certainly I would say your nineties. But even then you
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ought to live about one hundred and seven years old.
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If we do many things, not all things, just many things, right.
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Wow. Well, you know, I've been involved in mind body
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work most of my adult life. I've become a meditator
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in my late twenties or maybe mid twenties, and you know,
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but I have to admit that, and today I'm really
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focused on optimizing my health and well being in my
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mindset around aging. I'm seventy four, so it's become ever
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more important. But even up until you know, recent years,
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I have to admit I would you know, I would
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sometimes hear myself saying things like, you know, youth is
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wasted on the young, Getting old sucks, things like this.
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You know, you know I had allowed those those ideas
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about aging to influence me. One thing that did help
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me was over the past decade. You know, you're something
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like sixties and new forties, seventies, a new fifty, and
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you know, I started embracing that, and that was kind
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of a helpful meme. And I started embracing that I'm
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really focused on optimizing my health and wellbeing, and I
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go to a whole routine not only in terms of
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body mind work in the morning, but also some affirmations
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around Instiningra said one hundred and seven. Mine is one
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hundred and eight healthy, wealthy, enlightened, thriving and serving. And
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I'm doing that little manto right to envision the possibility
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of living a long life and while being healthy and
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prospering and serving and you know, having a meaningful life, right.
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So I'm really glad that I've embraced that. But you
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know what you're talking about the power of these beliefs.
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This is what the summit is all about. And we
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know we've known this for a long time. Psychologically, we
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know it neurobiologically. Did our beliefs, whether their conscious or unconscious,
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really drive how we interpret life, how we and how
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we show up in life, and the results we create
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for ourselves in life. So it's just critically important. So
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once one sort of awakens to the untruth of these
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myths and that we can live a long, healthy life,
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you know, by doing a few of the right things
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and embracing healthy lifestyle and natural solutions to deal with
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issues we may have to deal with, and then you
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kind of open up to that world. There's this plethora
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of information today. I mean before you back back before
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the Internet, there was very limited information and it was
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curated by big Farma and big food, et cetera, et cetera.
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So we got limited information. Today there's just this plethora
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of information, and it's all over the map, and it
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can be very confusing, and some of it's accurate and
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some of it's maybe not so accurate, and and a
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lot of promises and so forth. So how do we
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filter this and find our way through? I know, going
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to your art of anti aging dot com website is
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one good place to start, But other than that, what
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kind of filters do we use to find our way
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through to maybe an accurate signal on the real truth
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around things that can help us enhance our well being
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and age in a healthy way and both longevity and
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health band.
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Yeah, well that's either your event or Ryan that's it. No, nothing,
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I'm kidding. But your event is a great start. And
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the word trust comes to mind. I do hope as
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many people have embraced them. I'm doing this for the
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right reasons and so trust is important. However, a step
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before then, let me go two steps before that. To
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answer that question, you brought up something regarding yourself, which
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I appreciate you opening the door on yourself like that,
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and it is one of the most fascinating and important
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aspects to understand about ourselves. We tend to believe, and
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we have Frion's believed that our brain controls us, right,
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and only in recent years doing a lot of really
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cool research, fascinating research, has it come to really strong
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light that just as much we have to be in
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control of our brain. It's the old brain is best friend,
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worst anime thing, right, and the brain can really do
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some severe damage to you if you let it. The
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beautiful thing is that there are so many ways to
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you know, and it's it's kind of weird talking about
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this when you think about it, because you know, using
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your brain to control your brain obviously it's our executive function,
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but for the sake of conversation, to grab more control
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over your brain through many means that you teach and
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have taught really well. It's say, you know, modern forms
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as well as traditional of meditation, even nature walking are
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so important to center yourself get away from this mass
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and true epidemic of chronic stress. That that you know,
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messes with our brains, our health, our lives, and stops us.
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So that's a huge one. But it's important to get
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control of your brain. I used to think that things
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like affirmations are a bunch of fluff, and now there's
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a lot of evidence on affirmations, simple affirmations, because what's
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going on. You're telling your brain this is the way
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it is, and you and your brain saying, oh, okay,
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you know, so why simply getting a firm grasp of
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your own beliefs about what aging means, and it's a okay.
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In fact, it's likely if you discover you have negative
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impressions of what getting older means, it's okay. And most
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people do I still do you noted? You do? Right?
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So this is not a one time deal. You routinely,
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you know, try to visit that and then just one
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of many ways is simply to write out the truth.
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Getting older to me means these are going to be
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the best years of my life, These are going to
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be the healthiest years of my life. If I have
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a health condition, I am going to improve. This once
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sounded like fluff to me until I dug in and
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realized and a lot of research has been done on
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this that these are telling your brain, I'm in control,
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and this is how it's going to be, and it's
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going to be wonderful. My health is going to improve,
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you know, physically, emotionally, mentally. So that's a very important
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thing to note in context of the question you're asking me,
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because there is a lot of health noise out there
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and there, and as long as we are susceptible to
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our emotions, our thoughts owning us and controlling us and
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whipping us around, all of these institutions will be able
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to maintain this invisible, sometimes visible excuse me, visible, but
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most often invisible control of us. The grocery store industry
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will be able to, you know, push our choices without
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us knowing it, to certain things at certain levels on
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the shelf, with the pretty music that we're not thinking
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about playing for a reason in the background, and so forth.
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The drug industry will continue to do what it does
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and make so many people believe drugs are healthcare, et cetera.
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If we are susceptible to that, and we're susceptible to that,
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when our emotions are not in our control, there's no
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bad emotion or good emotion it's simply about do you
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recognize and more so own them or are they owning you.
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So when we're susceptible, that is when all this noise
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and all the infinite now amount of health information can
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harm us. And it does. I've seen it. And it's
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also one of the biggest issues out there now. There
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is this overwhelm of health advice. I'm putting quotes surround
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that from every quarter today, you know, blogs, podcasts, social media,
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especially TV magazine, still so and so forth right, And
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this is a problem. This is a big problem when
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you are susceptible, because whoever words something well or catches
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your eye with the right image, or you know, works
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on your emotions in a certain way, we'll grab your
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attention and you'll be a passive consumer and you will
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possibly say, man, that sounds really good, you know that
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that supplement with ABC including by the way, a bunch
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of synthetic junk in it sounds like it's going to
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be a huge difference in my life and out. And
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you get sucked in, and you get sucked in, and
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social media is designed to suck you in and never
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let you go and keep you clicking and scrolling and
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scrolling forever, including so much of it about health advice
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quoting quote unquote again so again, when it starts with
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just like everything starts with having that ownership of your emotions,
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be they you know, stress or Joe, or any emotion
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at all, having that ownership, which is why your event
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is so wonderful, because it's so much about that right
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and and that ownership. Therefore, you know, you're able to
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see and properly, Let's put it that way. You know,
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from the heart as well as your mind, you're able
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to see far more properly and make informed choices that
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are truly good for you long term, not little dopamine
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hit you know type of choices, but long term choices.
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You're able to detect who can I trust? What organizations
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can I more so trust? Wait a minute, you know
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which ones I better back off and check out? You
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know what else has this organization put out? You're better
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able to make informed choices. Is this based on a
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variety of different experiences and evidence or are they really
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just about trying to sell me something?
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You know?
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By Night's short term here, you know that that is
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the most vital aspect to cut through the noise is
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to have no noise inside of yourself that's clouding your view.
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What if transformation isn't just about thinking differently, but feeling differently.
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I'm really glad that you're you know, you're expressing both
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doing that work to clarify what what bleiefs am I holding?
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And you know, seeing where obviously if they're negative beliefs,
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knowing that they're going to have this impact, so working
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to kind of deconstruct those and create positive beliefs. But
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also this sense of agency because we've all been trained.
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Anyone who grew up in the post World War t
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where Baby Boomers and beyond then the millennials and the
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generation and ze everyone in this has been indoctrinated their
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whole lives to become passive consumers. We've all been trained
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to be passive consumers. And so the question will be, well,
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where can I get the right information? Just tell me,
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appoint me to where I can get the right information,
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which is still kind of a passive consumer approach. So
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I really do think we all have to embrace that agency.
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Now.
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I've developed a number of sources that I trust, that
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I know that are sources of various health information and
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products and so forth, and I know they have integrity
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I know their evidence bace, I know, and at the
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same time they don't always agree. So I realized I
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still have to kind of do my own research. I
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have to, you know, work with my own body and
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my own mind and try this and try that, so
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I can I can come up with a sphere of
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sources that I, you know, more or less trust because
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I trust they're doing good work, they have integrity. I
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still have to do my work to figure it out.
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There's no way around. If we really want to, you know,
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have the health and longevity that we're talking about, we
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have to embrace this quality of agency. So I'm really
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appreciating that you're emphasizing that, you know, your work is
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emphasized both natural solutions, natural products, and evidence based and
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I think that's just so important. And I wonder if
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you could talk about what you really mean by evidence
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based products and how do we know how do we
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extinguish the evidence based strategy solutions and products that are
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out there versus things that maybe sound good, have a
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lot of marketing behind them, but have not really been tested.
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Yeah, my mind just shot five different directions that I
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want to answer that question. That's a great question, and
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you know, first, let me note what you brought up
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again your previous answer, that you have a lot of
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sources that you have worked your self to find that
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you can trust. It's a wonderful thing to be able
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to find someone I hope like me and certainly like
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you for other people, because if you have enough trust,
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then you can check out what I have done all
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of this research on and what you have done this
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research on. And I will say this eight times out
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of ten. You know, you everyone listening, you know, may agree.
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It's okay not to agree. Sometimes it's okay if you
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recommend a product or something fleet and you know, nine eight,
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nine times out of ten people love it. But some
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people might not because we are different, of course, but
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that's no reason not to trust. We all know that.
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And regarding knowledge and natural health and evidence based the
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beautiful thing is that we have now we collectively, you know,
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as this research community, have a pretty clear line in
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on all of the most essential steps that people need
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to take to look the other best avoid disease, even
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overcome any disease, and live long. We have a pretty
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clear view. We're at the point now where you know,
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there's a lot of fine points, and there will be
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new discoveries forever, right, I mean, of course, and that's
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a wonderful thing. And there's a lot of fine point disagreements.
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I see a lot of arguments erupt over small points,
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and I'm like, okay, well that's fun for you, fine,
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but I hope you're taking the big step and encouraging
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others to take the big step behind that. Should you
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eat olive oil? And how much is it bad? Or
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you know, things like that. It's just like, that's kind
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of missing the point. The point is, you know, you
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take the big essential steps and you'll be okay if
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you're if it's not great to eat olive oil, but
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you should be, or you should be but you're not.
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You'll be okay if you're taking you know, the bigger
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picture steps. So about evidence, Well, again, I have been immersed.
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I'm a geek. I'm a geek. I I actually joy
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white papers and all this dense research, and I have
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enjoyed it for decades now. And I can state that
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I would never believe even most of the so called
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research studies related to anything pharmaceutical, because you dig into
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that research and you will often, if not almost always,
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find out that it's funded directly or indirectly by the
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pharmaceutical company or companies that benefit from it. I'm very
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skeptical of research that taut's a specific brand of food
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for the very same reasons. However, there are wonderful people
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in research institutions, and they're a vast minority doing research
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on things come to mind like herbs and spices and
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vegetables and fruits and exercise that have no gain, no connection.
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And I'm like, well, man, i am so happy these
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people still exist. They're not getting big funding, they're not
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in it for any money, unlike a lot of the
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researchers who are funded by you know, pharma, for example.
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And so you have to be able to determine source
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of information when you're looking at things, and intent is
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a huge one, and you know with that research is
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exactly what it's, you know what it states. You know,
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if there's one study showing something, and then what type
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of study and the extent of you know, that study.
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If there's one study, it's suggests something pretty good. If
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there's ten, it's suggesting something really good. If there's one,
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hundreds or thousands, you better believe it. And then the
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ultimate wonderful litmus test, and what does antiquity say about it?
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Because here's a beautiful thing I've seen over the decades,
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so many concepts from antiquity, from ancient forms of medicine,
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all of a sudden become all the rage because science
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showed what it's true. They were right for the most
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part about this stuff. Whatever it may be. Termeric, you know,
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certain fruits omla or Indian gooseberry comes to mind. I mean,
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so many different things that different cultural medicine institutions embrace
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for eons. Then when you see studies start showing they
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were right, you could pretty much be sure, Hey, they're
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onto something there. I brought up Indian gooseberry. Indian gooseberry
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omla is is highly embraced and has been for eons
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in the Aravateic medicine culture. This is just an example
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for folks, and it's it's not on the radar. I mean,
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many people listening here right in ar gonna be like,
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what are you even talking about? What is an Indian
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gooseberry omla? Well, it's a it's a it's a sour
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it's a sowerberry. It's hard to eat because it's so sour,
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so astringent, but it is simply sky high in antioxidants,
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including for example, vitamin C and others that have a
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massive positive impact excuse me on inflammation. It's great consuming
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it internally, it's great consuming it on your skin, where
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it boosts collagen levels and more in your skin, and
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you know, leads to much better looking skin and so forth.
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This is just one example I'm talking about, is that
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when antiquity, you know, when ancient times embrace something and
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then science digs in and says, yep, yep, yep, yep,
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you can be pretty don't sure the evidence can be
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trusted on that thing. And that's the kind of evidence
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I like to put out their most still fault absolutely.
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And I know you've you've spoken a lot about the
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toxins that can really lead to disease and impact our lives.
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And now you're both both toxins that could be in
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the environment and the food, but also mental toxins, and
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so I wonder if you could talk about a little
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bit about that so that we can kind of see
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what we're up against and then how we can embrace
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a lifestyle and choices that are going to maybe limit
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our exposure to toxins, but also then get some of
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the anti toxins and the nutrients that can override that
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exposure that we have, right.
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Great question again, so well, certainly incorrect beliefs about aging
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are a massive mental talks toxin, there's fire, there's more,
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you know, there's a lot more in fact, again spreading
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concept out wider. You know, so many people rightfully pay
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close attention to insights about healthy diet and healthy exercise choices,
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for example, and the big issues out there, the big
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problems regarding poor di that are so pervasive, and lack
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of exercise, sitting too much, those are not really problems.
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Those are by products of the big problem. And the
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big problem really is mental slash emotional, if you will, tuxins.
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And what I mean by that is not just this
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perception of aging. We are the biggest enemy to our
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health is not out there, it's within us. It's inside
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of us, most of us, many of us to some extent,
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all of us. And that is starts with I guess
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the one word I would say is fear. If you
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don't feel very safe, including with yourself and loving with yourself,
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starting safe and loving with yourself and therefore safe and
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loving with the rest of the world. Again, you've got
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a huge barrier, and you can eat as right as possible, exercise,
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you are still bound to experience health issues that you
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should not experience. The biggest toxin of all, again, is
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kind of already inside most of us. You'll never completely
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eliminate And that's okay, that's not the point. The point
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is to become aware of it and work toward reducing it.
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A word comes to mind, forgiveness, and people hear this
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and they nod and they're like yeah, and then many
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of them ignore that concept after a short discussion and
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want to go find what's the best thing I should eat,
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what's the pill I should take. But it's huge inside
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your heart. If you don't have forgiveness for yourself, for
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something or someone else, If you don't have that, you're
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going to be hard pressed to really improve your health
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in any significant ways. These these are internal or mental
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emotional toxins that are bigger than anything else out there
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in terms of stopping you from achieving healthy aging and longevity,
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extending the length and quality of your life. So I
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want to know that now in a physical sense, I
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do want to state really make let me make this
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statement real quickly. So chronic stress and physical toxicants twenty
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years from now, thirty years from now will look back
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on these times and those two issues will be recognized,
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they're not quite enough yet, will be recognized as the
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worst issues that we face e true epidemics of our time.
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Chronic stress, anxiety and all that contributes to it. And
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then physical toxicants that are in absolutely everything we're surrounding
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ourselves with these days, from cosmetics, personal care products of course,
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foods our water, municipal water supplies which doesn't even test
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for most of them, the error especially inside homes and
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so forth. These are going to be recognized as the
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worst problems that our current society has faced. There's not
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enough awareness of either of those. So the chronic stresses
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again more so that mental emotional stress, and it starts
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with the basis of fear. You are afraid of something
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when you experience anxiety and chronic stress. And on the
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physical side that is lack of awareness. And everyone says, well,
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they're everywhere, What am I going to do about it? Well,
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you're never going to eliminate all of them. That's not
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the point. The point is there are certain areas where
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it's very important to reduce. And the beautiful thing on
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both of these fronts, the mental emotional toxins and the
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physical toxicants is just reduction of them makes a tremendous
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difference to your health and longevity, not to mention your
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energy levels and your joy.
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I'm glad you're pointing to the internal work, because I mean,
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there is so much we can do to reduce our
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exposure to toxins, physical toxins and our food, the environment,
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the water, the air, and so forth. And then know,
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healthy diet, exercise, you know, breathing, all the things we
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can do. But there's that internal work.
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You know.
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I share a bit of your experience growing up in
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an alcoholic family. Myself and so many of us are
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sitting on completely unprocessed undealt with grief, anger, even rage,
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and we haven't even started to work to get to
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where we could forgive ourselves and and this can really
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impact our lives, even if we're doing a lot of
719
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the right things, if we haven't done that internal work.
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So I think it's I really appreciate that you pointed
721
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to that to doing the work to heal, you know,
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to deal with and heal our past, whatever it is
723
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to be able to forgive ourselves, to forgive our parents,
724
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to forgive our grandparents. Now, forgiving them often means being
725
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getting permission to be angry, to begin with, right to
726
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acknowledge what really happened, to acknowledge the things that we
727
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should have received that we didn't, the things that we
728
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did receive that we shouldn't have to acknowledge those have
729
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our feelings about it. But then to find our way
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into forgiveness, we have to kind of clear up that
731
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internal environment, and then we're going to find it so
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much easier, because often even though we know about all
733
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the good things we need to do, we don't find
734
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ourselves doing it, or it's one step forward, two steps back,
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or best two steps forward, one step back, when we
736
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find ourselves even though we have good information, behaving in
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ways that are to our own detriment, and a lot
738
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of that I think is driven because we haven't done
739
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that internal work, and we're still dealing with so much
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internal conditioning and fear and anxiety and unprocessed grief and
741
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anger and so forth. So I'm really glad that you
742
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point to that internal work. I think it's incredibly important
743
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so I mean this may sound like a big challenge
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to all of us, but again it's like, if we
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want to thrive in life, it's about accepting the agency
746
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that we need to do our internal work, and then
747
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we need to get internal intelligent about how we're engaging
748
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in life and what we're consuming and so forth.
749
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Yeah, right, Well, heal your past and also heal your present.
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Not only is it last you know issues including you know,
751
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anger perhaps at yourself, certainly others. As you noted, it's
752
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also present issues often that come about fleet because we
753
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don't have that well control that is a big word,
754
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but control over our emotions versus them controlling us. Now
755
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here's one in a little People don't necessarily love me
756
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when I bring this one up, but nonetheless I believe
757
00:46:31.960 --> 00:46:34.159
it's true. And you know, again based on a lot
758
00:46:34.159 --> 00:46:40.960
of research, what I've seen is confirmation bias today, not
759
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for anything that happened in the past, but there's so
760
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many people who are very angry at the other side.
761
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We know this from politics. You know, it's not just
762
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in politics, but there is a lot of side taking today.
763
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I'm not going to speak for you, but I can
764
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tell you over the course of years and decades from
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my I haven't seen it to this level in my
766
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lifetime that it is today. I think I heard during
767
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the United States a civil war it might have been,
768
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you know, equitable to that perhaps, But there's a lot
769
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of side taking in anger and that side is wrong
770
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and that side is wrong, and if they don't agree
771
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with me, they're bad people. And that's stressful. And guess
772
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what that is. That's fear. That's at its very basis again,
773
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that is the fear we're talking about. Confirmation bias means
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you gravitate toward whatever confirms your current beliefs. That's what
775
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confirmation biases. And the most one of the most important,
776
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wonderful things we can be is students not believe that
777
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we know everything. And I try every single day, and
778
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I have little quotes to remind me to do so,
779
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putting my student cap on and saying I could be wrong,
780
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could be wrong about everything. I could be wrong, And
781
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it's a hard thing. It's very humbling, and it's hard
782
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for my ego who wants to be right. But people
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are taken advantage of because of confirmation bias. And there
784
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are institutions media and I'll state these by name. Fox
785
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news on one side, CNN and MSNBC for example, on
786
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the other so called side, and so forth. People get
787
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the idea, these are four profit institutions laughing all the
788
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way to the bank. By yanking people around with confirmation bias,
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we're going to make them angry even angrier at the
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other side. That's what they do. I have been inside
791
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of media organizations like that. That is what they do. Consciously.
792
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It's very profitable for these institutions who are beholden to
793
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all of their stockholders. That's what they're doing to you.
794
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So there's present anger and fear inside of us that,
795
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as we talked about earlier, is being manipulated for there
796
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and it's awareness of that kind of thing, not just
797
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trauma that happened in our past, but that is a
798
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form of trauma. Really when you think about it, watching
799
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the media does it never feels great? Later you don't
800
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watch these shows and then you walk outside, Man, that
801
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was refreshing and uplifting to watch the latest Fox News
802
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or CNN. No, it's not. And that's your body telling
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you something wrong with that. There's something wrong with that.
804
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Maybe I should reduce that. And if I am going
805
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to partake and that be very conscious of what they're
806
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really trying to do to me. That's a traumatic event
807
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as well.
808
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Yeah, we could do a whole other conversation, a whole
809
00:49:39.519 --> 00:49:43.079
another summit on getting out of our confirmation bias bubbles,
810
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I think, which you're really doing us a lot of harm.
811
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It's helpful to oh that the world of marketing also
812
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understands the psychology of confirmation bias extremely well and obviously
813
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makes use of that to manipulate us. So coming back
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to the need for agency, and I really loved what
815
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you said about having that beginner's mind, that student mind,
816
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that you willing to set back. Maybe I've got this
817
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whole thing wrong, you know, continually having the humility to
818
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look and take a deeper look. And really, you know,
819
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you know, I have a kind of a healthy scientific mind,
820
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of a kind of pure scientific mind. I'm really I
821
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want to know the truth. I'm going to keep looking,
822
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I'm going to keep taking an objective assessment of how
823
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I'm experiencing what I'm in. Having that kind of mindset,
824
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it's like we've all been trained. I want to we
825
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can somebody else do that for me? Right? That's too
826
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hard to work? Right? Well, then we're going to get
827
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what we get in a lot of those sources, even
828
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some of the ones that are you know, marketing the
829
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natural stuff, are going to be using that psychology to
830
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manipulate us in ways, in ways that are not really
831
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in our best interests.
832
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So let's talk.
833
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More about what we can do. And in line with
834
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this agency, you mentioned before that our brain can be
835
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our best friend or our worst enemy. Right, our brain
836
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is highly conditioned, highly programmed supercomputer. But fortunately we are
837
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conscious beings and we have our executive function and the
838
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top down part of our brain, the conscious brain, where
839
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we can be literally reprogramming our own brain. And so
840
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part of this is that we understand neuroplasticity, that the
841
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brain is continually growing and changing and can grow and
842
00:51:21.480 --> 00:51:24.039
thrive throughout our lifespan. And there's a lot of things
843
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we can do. Everything we do that helps the body
844
00:51:26.639 --> 00:51:28.599
be healthy will help the brain be healthy. But then
845
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with intentionality, we can also rewire the brain, rewire our
846
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beliefs to support all the things we're talking about here
847
00:51:35.039 --> 00:51:37.639
about health and wellbeing and longevity and health span and
848
00:51:37.719 --> 00:51:40.119
so forth. So I wonder if you could talk about
849
00:51:40.519 --> 00:51:43.920
the role of neuroplasticity in healthy aging.
850
00:51:44.599 --> 00:51:48.920
You're right right again, great question, And this may seem
851
00:51:49.000 --> 00:51:51.559
initially to contradict everything I just said, but it doesn't.
852
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It complements it. It's a two way stream you just
853
00:51:54.119 --> 00:51:57.840
alluded to that. What I mean is, you do need
854
00:51:57.960 --> 00:52:02.280
to address these mental emotional specs. However, by addressing the
855
00:52:02.320 --> 00:52:05.719
physical aspects, even if you don't necessarily start by addressing
856
00:52:05.760 --> 00:52:11.480
the mental slash emotional, you are building. It's like a
857
00:52:11.519 --> 00:52:15.239
workout to better be able to address the mental emotional
858
00:52:15.239 --> 00:52:17.920
and get control. What I mean is, for example, exercise.
859
00:52:18.360 --> 00:52:23.559
So if you talk about neuroplasticity and from a physical perspective,
860
00:52:23.599 --> 00:52:27.960
there's probably nothing that research shows as more effective for
861
00:52:28.559 --> 00:52:32.760
neuroplasticity for increasing the you know, essentially your brain power,
862
00:52:32.800 --> 00:52:35.840
the neurons in your brain, which is wonderful news. You know,
863
00:52:36.119 --> 00:52:38.559
twenty years ago, thirty years ago, we didn't even think
864
00:52:38.599 --> 00:52:42.880
you could do this. Many didn't at least, and now
865
00:52:43.000 --> 00:52:46.639
again science research that's not true. You certainly can to
866
00:52:46.679 --> 00:52:52.639
a physical level basically increase your brain power and capacity,
867
00:52:52.760 --> 00:52:55.760
including you know, ability to focus more. This is what
868
00:52:55.800 --> 00:52:57.519
I mean, by the way, when I say these ought
869
00:52:57.519 --> 00:52:59.440
to be the best years of your life, even physically,
870
00:52:59.519 --> 00:53:03.880
because we can do that. So exercise is shown if
871
00:53:05.039 --> 00:53:08.440
you're incapable at this point of addressing a lot of
872
00:53:08.440 --> 00:53:15.199
deep seated emotional challenges Layman's terms, go exercise, Start exercising,
873
00:53:15.440 --> 00:53:19.960
because it's working out, it's increasing your ability to properly
874
00:53:20.119 --> 00:53:24.840
think and and equip you to better think through those
875
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:27.280
things that are stopping you. So that's what I mean.
876
00:53:27.320 --> 00:53:30.639
It's a two way street. The the a lot of
877
00:53:30.679 --> 00:53:34.119
the work that you have really helped put on the
878
00:53:34.159 --> 00:53:37.559
map and rightfully sew, and then a lot of the
879
00:53:37.559 --> 00:53:44.599
more physical approaches diet exercise certainly eliminating physical toxicans. They
880
00:53:44.639 --> 00:53:47.599
work the other way and were holistic right, and so
881
00:53:47.599 --> 00:53:50.239
it's both of these is the solution. And you brought
882
00:53:50.239 --> 00:53:53.320
that up. So I'd say, you know, if I had
883
00:53:53.360 --> 00:53:57.960
to pick one thing you know, to do to increase neuroplasticity,
884
00:53:58.000 --> 00:53:59.800
it would be exercised. But you don't have to pick
885
00:53:59.840 --> 00:54:05.079
one thing because there's many things physical exercise. There's a
886
00:54:05.679 --> 00:54:08.719
course mindfulness and meditation that's the other one thing. So
887
00:54:08.800 --> 00:54:11.400
there's not one thing. I'm cheating already because there's a
888
00:54:11.400 --> 00:54:16.760
bunch of one things mindfulness, meditation, exercise. Clearly diet in
889
00:54:16.840 --> 00:54:21.840
terms of as important what you avoid as what you
890
00:54:21.920 --> 00:54:25.360
put in. I will say on the dietary front say,
891
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I can go deep into any of these, and I'm passionate,
892
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as you can tell, and I want to. But in
893
00:54:30.719 --> 00:54:34.039
very brief you've heard this one before, and it's very true.
894
00:54:34.280 --> 00:54:39.559
Reduce those processed foods, those refined grains, the sugars, not
895
00:54:39.679 --> 00:54:42.239
on learning. Are they an enemy to your heart and
896
00:54:42.280 --> 00:54:44.880
every other organ in your body. They're a huge enemy
897
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to your brain and your ability to regenerate your brain.
898
00:54:47.880 --> 00:54:50.360
They're a huge enemy. I don't need to talk much
899
00:54:50.360 --> 00:54:52.079
more about that. I think that's been covered well, but
900
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if I do, I will. And then on the flip side,
901
00:54:56.079 --> 00:54:58.840
people say, increase vegetables and fruits, and that's true. What
902
00:54:59.000 --> 00:55:01.519
you really want to to increase. One of the things
903
00:55:01.559 --> 00:55:06.800
is antioxidants. Human beings today in this country, and probably
904
00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:09.199
I could confidently say most of the world today, the
905
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Western world for sure, do not eat not only nearly
906
00:55:13.239 --> 00:55:18.679
enough fruits, veggies, herbs, spices, grains, seeds, but range. People
907
00:55:18.719 --> 00:55:23.039
forget range. Range is just as important as volume, and
908
00:55:23.199 --> 00:55:27.400
people get caught fleet in a rut of eating the
909
00:55:27.480 --> 00:55:30.559
same seven eight, nine, ten different fruits and veggies and
910
00:55:30.599 --> 00:55:33.400
herbs and spices over and over and over. That is
911
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not doing you any good. It's not doing you bad, okay,
912
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but it's not doing you nearly as good as if
913
00:55:39.639 --> 00:55:44.559
you put thirty different or so fruits herb spices into
914
00:55:44.639 --> 00:55:48.480
your diet routinely. Why because they contain a wide range
915
00:55:48.480 --> 00:55:52.039
of the antioxidants and these other compounds that, since we're
916
00:55:52.079 --> 00:55:56.719
talking about brain, greatly impact neuroplasticity, not to mention a
917
00:55:56.719 --> 00:55:59.800
bunch of other health benefits in the body. So that's diet,
918
00:56:00.559 --> 00:56:03.400
and then of course sleep and I can go deep
919
00:56:03.440 --> 00:56:05.400
there too if you want, but I think we've we've
920
00:56:05.400 --> 00:56:07.599
heard that it's it's vital. I can give tips on
921
00:56:07.599 --> 00:56:12.519
that front too. And then the most interesting one for neuroplasticity,
922
00:56:12.760 --> 00:56:17.079
interesting to me, fascinating to me is exercising your brain.
923
00:56:17.199 --> 00:56:19.719
And what that means is people have heard do so do?
924
00:56:20.320 --> 00:56:24.000
How do you pronounce it? Soku? Soku? And puzzles and stuff. Okay,
925
00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:29.119
that's level one, but really, really what's important is to
926
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have new experiences and engage in new learning activities that
927
00:56:34.960 --> 00:56:40.119
go well beyond that challenge your brain, especially if you
928
00:56:40.119 --> 00:56:43.960
can incorporate your brain and your body with more complicated
929
00:56:44.239 --> 00:56:49.559
new learning activities good old examples, learning a new language,
930
00:56:50.039 --> 00:56:53.480
going to a dance class is wonderful. Why because it's
931
00:56:53.480 --> 00:56:56.719
a mental activity and a physical activity where you have
932
00:56:56.800 --> 00:57:02.360
to do some complicated steps. Fantastic Gardening can be really
933
00:57:02.400 --> 00:57:05.639
strong for this, especially if you're a aggressive I call
934
00:57:05.760 --> 00:57:09.039
it gardener, meeting someone who's digging a lot, you know,
935
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stepping around all these plants, be they vegetables, fruits, whatever,
936
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or our flowers. You know, gardening is great. Just engage
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00:57:17.039 --> 00:57:20.840
in new hobbies that the more they challenge your brain
938
00:57:20.960 --> 00:57:25.119
and your body, the merrier we're seeing that not only
939
00:57:25.239 --> 00:57:28.320
is it fun and fun is vital for healthy aging
940
00:57:28.320 --> 00:57:33.639
and longevity, but it's very key to neuroplasticity.
941
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I wonder if we could I love the just really
942
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global and holistic way you've covered that that territory, and
943
00:57:42.000 --> 00:57:44.119
again we could go in the great depth in any
944
00:57:44.159 --> 00:57:48.760
of those areas, but there that there are these things
945
00:57:48.800 --> 00:57:52.280
we can do and pay attention to that will increase neuroplasticity.
946
00:57:52.519 --> 00:57:55.679
And then if we have clear intentionality, we embrace that
947
00:57:55.760 --> 00:57:59.519
sense of agency and we're using positive affirmations and other things,
948
00:58:00.039 --> 00:58:03.760
and we can we can literally reprogram our brain in
949
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ways that are going to support going in a direction
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we want, and we'll find ourselves less and at one
951
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step foward, two steps back, because our brain will start
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cooperating with us. Right, And so you point to do
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a lot of things, and again you're absolutely right. There
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is nothing that increases neuroplasticity more than exercise. I've often
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used example with people. You know, often in your gyms,
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your workout studios, they have this long row of elliptical
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machines or or or becoming bicycles and so forth, and
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then they have all the television screens up there, right,
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So get out there and get your heart pumping, and
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them your watching reality TV probably not a good idea,
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or the news probably not a good idea. Put out
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a nice nature movie or something right.
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Put on this events actually absolutely absolutely so.
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I wonder if we could talk a little bit about
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the spiritual dimension of all this. You use the term
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sacred spaces and protecting the sacred space of your body
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and your mind, and in that sense of you know,
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spirituality will mean different things to different people, but you
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know it is we can really get into the neurobiology,
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and we can get into the physicality of it, and
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we can talk about mindset, and there is some we
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all know we censor, some greater thing that we tap
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into that gives meaning, a purpose to our life and
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gives you know, kind of the wind that are back
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a little bit if we're tuned into something sort of
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deeper than just our limited, limited self, so to speak.
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So I wonder if you could talk about the spiritual
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dimension of healthy aging and longevity and this idea of
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sacred spaces and protecting sacred spaces.
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Absolutely, and it's clearly, clearly vital and it does not matter,
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like you noted, what your beliefs you know, may be
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about where we come from, if you're a member of
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any different sort of church. At the end of the day,
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it is a miracle really that we're here right at all.
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And I think many, if not most, people can identify
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with moments in their life which I encourage you to
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go back to if you've lost them, where you get
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this sense of oh, wow, I am part of this
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something much bigger things which I'm fascinated by, I'm honored,
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touched humbled by in awe of awe is a big word,
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and that have that big feeling go out at night,
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go back and lay under the stars if you're able
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to see them. To get that feeling, just go out
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in nature somewhere, you know, anything, that's just one example
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comes to mind that aspires this so called awe and
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this feeling of connection to a greater thing. And then
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you know you can also through often you know, mindfulness.
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Simply focus on your body and your being, not just
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your body, but you're being, and just realize it's amazing.
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It's amazing on every level that you are here and
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find ways back to that awe is so important in
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the sense, the sense of something greater, and how amazing
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this is. How grateful you think about that. You know,
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we talk about miracles, miracles. It's a miracle that I'm
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sitting here talking to you. It's a miracle you woke
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up this morning, and that I woke up this morning,
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and that we were born, and so on and so forth,
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and again there's scientific basis to this that this sounds
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fluffy to any listener. I'm a very science person, you know,
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but there is much greater. The one thing I could
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tell you science has found most often than anything else
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is that we don't have the answers. It always opens
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the door to new questions, right, and so it will
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be because we're human and we don't have all those answers.
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And so when you get that recognition, you also recognize
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how sacred you are. And by you again, I mean
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your physical body, but your entire being, your mental and
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emotional health. For the sake of this discussion, mental emotional,
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physical health, and really your ability to live long and
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thrive while living long boils down to what you allow
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into that sacred space and what you strive to keep
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out of that sacred space, and also, to some extent,
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what you strive to get out that might already be
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inside of you that doesn't really belong there. We talked
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a lot about that there are very physical toxic and
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so that you want to eliminate, and as we discussed
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a lot as certainly some mental emotional toxic toxins that
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you want to get out of your body. So what
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are you allowing into your being? What are you striving
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to keep out, What do you need to work on
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to potentially get out. It's a very oversimplified, admittedly, but
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a healthy way to start by looking at your being,
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because that is your sacred space, is this is what
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you have dominion, is your being, and it's a gift,
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and it's a gift and a constant work toward taking
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the time to re establish with that fact is important,
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which again has done through different types of mindfulness. So
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I say to people, go out there and do nothing,
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and it's some of the most important work you can
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do if you just go again my example, because it
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works for me, will wander deep into nature, layout under
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the stars or even no stars or one star at night.
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Do nothing. It's some of the most important work you
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can do that will help you reconnect to that all
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to how sacred you are.
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Well, Brian, this has been incredibly illuminating, and there are
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so many different rabbit holes we could have gone down
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with you, and I could have interviewed you for any
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one of the days of this summit. Today we're focused
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on longevity and healthy aging, and so I want to
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ask in a moment where people can find out more
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about your work. But I also want to come back
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to where you really started our conversation, that there really
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isn't any reason, any biological reason why most of us
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can't live well into our nineties or beyond. And not
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only that that we cannot do that no reason we
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can't do that in a healthy way where we're enjoying
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our life and have quality of life into our nineties
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and beyond. And I think that's a powerful message, and
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that is you know, as we you know that old
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I mentioned earlier that I've been guilty of saying that thing,
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you know, youth is wasted on the young. Well, that's
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based on the idea that we developed more and more
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wisdom as we grow older. We've developed more and more discernment,
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so it'd be nice to have the health to go
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along with that. And what you're saying is we can
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have the health to go along with that and be
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vital and thriving into later years of life. So it's
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such a powerful message and such a positive affirmation of
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what life is all about. So thank you so much
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for that. So where can people find out more about
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your work?
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Sure, super summary go to the Art of Antiaging dot com.
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While you're there, sign up if you're so inclined for
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01:05:11.719 --> 01:05:15.920
the newsletter. We're always giving away some really exceptional We
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01:05:15.960 --> 01:05:18.800
put a lot of work into these bonus reports and
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01:05:19.480 --> 01:05:22.480
we change them up, So check out whatever free bonus
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we're giving when you do sign up for the newsletter.
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If you are so inclined so all free, of course,
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check out our blog. We also, I'm proud of that
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because we pour a lot of work into exceptional articles,
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again evidence based on topics that really matter to people.
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That's the art of antiaging dot com. And then you know,
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we touched on you know, toxicins in so many products.
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This includes cosmetics and personal care to an extent that
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most people still would not believe. So that's the real
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short story version of why I started Purity Woods, which
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is just entirely USD a certified organic skincare as well
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as a couple key types of supplements for healthy aging. Now,
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supplements are also typically loaded with junk that you don't want,
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so for that, if you're interested in go to Puritywoods
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dot com. And yeah, thank you you did such a
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beautiful job. By the way of summing up what I
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had started saying at the start, that I could tell
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that you have poured extensive heart effort yourself into this.
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I love what you're doing here Fleet. By the way,
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you're a gift. Speaking of gifts, you are a gift,
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my friend. So thank you for having me here.
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Well, thank you so much, Brian, Thank you so much
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for the work that you do and I really encourage
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your audience to go check out your work. So thank you,
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Thank you for joining me on the Radical Responsibility Podcast. Remember,
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real change happens when we commit to our growth, face
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01:06:46.719 --> 01:06:50.719
our challenges with compassion, and stay open to transformation. If
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you found this episode help, I encourage you to subscribe
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01:06:53.519 --> 01:06:56.679
and help us spread the message of healing and personal empowerment.
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Until next time, stay grounded, stay present and day true
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to yourself. Take care
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Your perception, your belief about aging has a monumental impact
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on your physical health. In fact, those who had negative
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or embraced mentally negative stereotypes about aging had a seven
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point five year reduction in life span versus those who
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had more positive impression of aging. And that about nails it.
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People look, feel and live look and feel less good
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than they ought to and live shorter lives than they
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ought to because of mindset.
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In this regard, what if the biggest threat to your
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health isn't aging itself, but what you believe about aging. Today,
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I sit down with Brian vasilely Boundar of the Art
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of Anti Aging, to explore how our beliefs shape our longevity,
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why most of what we've been taught about getting older
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is wrong, and how mindset, no plasticity and everyday habits
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can help us stay vibrant, healthy and thriving for decades
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longer than we think. I'm really happy to be here
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today with Brian Vasily. Welcome, Brian, Thank you so much.
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I'm excited to be here. So I'm going to share
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your bio and then we'll jump right in.
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Sound good sounds like a good plan.
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Okay, Brian Vasily is a renowned leader, researcher, and advocate
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in healthy aging and longevity with over twenty years of experience.
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He's the founder of the artof Antiaging dot com, a
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leading health platform with over five hundred thousand members dedicated
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to empowering individuals with evidence based natural solutions to avoid
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and overcome disease, live long, and thrive. Brian also hosts
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the Art of Anti Aging's widely respected healthy Aging summits,
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which have positively impacted millions of lives. In addition to
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his work and Healthy Aging, Brian is the founder of
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Purity Woods, one of today's fastest growing certified organic skincare
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and supplement companies. Throughout his career, he has collaborated closely
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with top mds and researchers, distilling their insights into actionable
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steps that are both clear and compelling. Brian's influencer sends
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beyond Healthy as an interestingly acclaimed author, speaker, and life
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and business coach. He's also the founder of Intense Experiences
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dot com, a leading site for positive transformation, and One World,
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One Book dot com, a global book club uniting readers
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to discuss great literature and support charitable causes. Obviously, you're
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quite a renaissance figure with diverse interests and activities. That's wonderful.
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Yeah. Well, I do have to note a couple of
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those last ones you put out there. Those are past
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ventures that were great adventures, but intense experiences is retired,
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although people will find all that material still out there. Yeah,
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one world one book that was an interesting adventure, but
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I don't believe people will find that one any more. However,
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the art of anti aging, dot Com and Purity Woods
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are alive and thriving. So yeah, yeah, wow, you really
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went into my background there. That's awesome.
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All right, Well, thank you for clarifying that. So as
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we get started with our conversation here about your work
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and about the art of anti aging, I wonder if
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you could give us just a little bit of your
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origin story. I think it's always helpful for the audience
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to see, you know, how did you end up in
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this whole world of longevity and anti aging?
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Yeah? Absolutely so. Well, I am currently fifty four and
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you can probably slice my life down the middle almost
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and the first half was really quite rough by anyone's definitions.
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Fleet So I grew up in inner city Chicago in
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a pretty rough neighborhood. I lost friends to gangs, and
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you know, it was just kind of an environment where
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I always had to watch my back on the outside.
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But far more well traumatic it was the fact that
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my father was a good man until around my age
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of nine years old. He then became severely alcoholic and
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severely abusive to me, to my sister, to my mother,
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and I can get into the what and why of that.
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He had a fascinating life, but a very hard life,
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and he did not deal effectively with some very serious
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traumas he faced. He lost his first wife. They got
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an argument and he watched as she stepped out of
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the car angry, and that truck hit her and killed her.
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He lost his son from his previous marriage to my
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mother when I was just three. I didn't know my
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that half brother who was hit by a car while
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riding a bike and killed. He was a World War
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two spy for the United States who you know, was
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in Germany during World War II seeing all of that,
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and he interestingly fell in love with a woman who
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turned out to be a Russian spy and they were
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going to get married, and then one day she was
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he finally did kick the bottle fleet. But then he
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inside of more than outside of hospitals. So I witnessed
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young man. I watched my mom almost end up on
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care system extensively for years. They were essentially experimenting on
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my father with drugs and different approaches and making him suffer.
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medical mistakes is quite true and beyond she thought and
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fought and caught so many mistakes. So I was there
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wife at that time and my credit, we did push
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my youth for a while there, and mice would come
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they are the reason I'm thriving today, and that is
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powerful women. Women have played this monumental role in my
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life more so than than they do in all of
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our lives. Of course, starting with our own mothers, right,
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sitting here talking to you today, and that includes I'm
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going to tear up, but I won't have a wonderful mother,
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an angel of the mother still, you know, Thank goodness,
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you know here with us today. A grandmother who's still
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with us, she's one hundred and four years old. A
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sister who is wonderful, and so on, and certain teachers
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and others. They all happen to be women. So now
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the college and have a baby, you know, at home
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and my wife, and so I need to get a job.
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this that all of people's frustrations and concerns slash fears
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about the pharmaceutical industry are largely true and beyond people
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don't know the half of it. I saw a lot
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in that role, and I couldn't wait to get out,
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on the table, etc. For quite some time. So do
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started having some conversations. He's a very controversial figure. I'm
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always a bit uneasy about bringing this up because people
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love him or hate him. And who am I talking about.
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who way back then, you know, had a very you know,
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small following, But I knew the message he was trying
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to put out there was essentially, take control of your
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own health. And this is long before folks like you know,
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most folks out there, you know, who are in this
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wonderful space today where we're trying to empower people with
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evidence space solutions to look feel their best lived long
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avoid disease. This long before, this was at the very
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start of the Internet, I guess you can almost say,
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because it really was at least the prevalence of the Internet.
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and we grew that and so I was then exposed
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wonderful health and wellness mds and practitioners who were trying
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to break free of the conventional mode. And you know,
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personal development brand almost myself for a while. It's called
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Intense Experiences, and did quite well with all of that,
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delved more so into the emotional and mental aspect of
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things and learned a lot there. Had a big best
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selling book out of that called The Nine Intense Experiences.
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crossroads Fleet about two thousand and eighteen seventeen eighteen. I
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was at a good crossroads. I can make a different
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choices where I'm going to take my life, but propelled
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to do one thing because I was watching Fleet as
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some very pervasive nonsense myths were impacting these women who
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had been so powerful in my own life. And these
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myths are the aging myths, and we can dive into
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that because they're one of the biggest issues out there period.
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and longevity and so these very otherwise powerful women. I
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saw these pervasive myths were negatively impacting them in a
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very physical way in some ways, the idea that getting older,
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when you hit forty, it equals becoming undesirable, incapable, doomed,
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suffering and disease, and you're getting you over the hill
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down you go. Now, all of those years fleet where
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I was working closely with so many different highly respectable,
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wonderful mds were integrative health as they call it, and
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natural health approaches trying to incorporate that I discovered the
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exact opposite is the truth forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, even
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beyond ought to be the best years of people's lives
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from a physical, emotional, mental standpoint. So there was this
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big rift, you know, and I was watching it impact
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even these powerful women in my own life, the belief
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that it's downhill and the fact, based on an incredible
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amount of evidence, that it ought to be the best years.
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In honor of my mother, in honor of my sister,
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in honor of these powerful women, I'm going to start
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an organization the art of anti aging. Dot com is
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what it's now called and I'm just going to put
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out all of these evidence based facts in a very
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easy to comprehend and put into action way for people,
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you know, from all of my peers in the industry,
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from all of the researchers, et cetera. And that's the
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start of the art of anti aging dot com. And
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as you kindly noted, it's now grown to over a
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half million, you know, folks who can go there, sign
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up for our newsletter, get these these insights. And I'm honored.
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I'm honored. And it's driven by by, as you can hear,
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a passion and a mission. So I'm so humbled really
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to be able to reach a lot of people like that.
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Thanks for asking. Yeah, and I hope that was somewhat condensed.
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Hell, you're did a great job with that. Your passion
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is palpable and incredibly moving, and I'm so glad we
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began there with your story. It's so powerful. And so
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you spoke about these myths that you became aware of
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that were impacting these amazing women in your own life,
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and this really ignited that passion of the work you're
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doing today. So and these myths become these cultural, culturally
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reinforced myths become beliefs that we internalize and then show
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up in ways that are actually undermining our health and
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our longevity and so forth. So what are some of
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these key if you had to name two or three
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of these myths or beliefs, what are some of the
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key beliefs you feel that many of us have internalized
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to our own detriment.
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Absolutely well, First one to note that various research has
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been done in this area. One of the most prominent
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researchers got her name is Becca Levy, and you know
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she did research earlier in the two thousands showing that
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your perception, your belief about aging has a monumental impact
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on your physical health. In fact, those who had negative
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or embraced mentally negative stereotypes about aging had a seven
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point five year reduction in life span versus those who
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had more positive impression of aging. And that about nails it.
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than they ought to and live shorter lives than they
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ought to because of mindset in this regard. And it
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is when people ask, and I know they're looking for
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dietary steps, often exercise steps, and those are super vital,
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but when people ask me what's the worst, the worst
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of the worst, or they want to hear the physical toxins,
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which is a monumentally big problem. But I will say
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that's easy. It's mind set about this because it is
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so prevalent in our society. Look at any entity, Hollywood
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you just watched our media, you would think that the
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vast majority of the population somewhere in their twenties, and
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all the women are, of course, you know, by conventional standards, beautiful,
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you just looked at the media, you know, it's a
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big place that it starts, or one of the primary
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places that this myth is is pushed. I will also
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tell you though, that because of this myth of aging,
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they all these big institutions that we have to be
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very cautious of, big food, big pharma, big cosmetics and
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personal care products industries. These they play and pray on
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this myth in a very massive way and take advantage,
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frankly of people and make you know untold billions, if
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not trillions of dollars doing so. So it starts and
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and I always like to go very personal with people
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and just say lease in a very mindful way, in
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a very unstressful way. Please truly ideally writing this out
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because we maybe we don't all know, we ought to
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all know that by writing it out. Doesn't matter if
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it sounds good on paper, that's not the point. It's
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just for you. But writing out what you really believe
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getting older means and examining that closely, be honest with yourself.
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we are and chronology we're seeing you should live normally
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past ninety seven? You should? You should even if you
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do many things, not all things even, but many things right,
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you should. So those are the years maybe late eighties
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nineties worth where truly you might start slowing down. And
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then of course in the nineties you will start slowing down.
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It's almost inevitable. But you ought to live even past that. Okay,
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what do I believe you know? Being forty fifty sixty
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seventy eighties means? What does that mean does that Do
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you believe that means vibrancy deeply and the best years
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of your life? Or do you embrace the myth And
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there's no judgment here, but do you embrace the myth
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to some extent that it's time for you to start
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slowing down? Looking unattractive, feeling less energetic, getting sick is
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more common. Those are all not true, But it's very
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important to assess your beliefs on that because you cannot achieve,
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honestly any other step if you have this massive internal
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emotional block in your way. You could do the best
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diet of all time, exercise your butt off, avoid every
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physical toxin out there, so on and so forth. If
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you have that belief, your belief is telling your brain
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time to die, Time to start dying now, haha. Party
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Stor says over the hill, on all these napkins and balloons,
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And how much do you really embrace that? It's not true.
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I will swear by that to everybody and again at
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the art of anti aging, just like you here we
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try to share with people facts that that is not
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true at all. You really don't need to slow down
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until again, perhaps as perhaps and here I might be
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being a little too liberal, but perhaps your later eighties.
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Certainly I would say your nineties. But even then you
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If we do many things, not all things, just many things, right.
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work most of my adult life. I've become a meditator
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in my late twenties or maybe mid twenties, and you know,
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but I have to admit that, and today I'm really
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mindset around aging. I'm seventy four, so it's become ever
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more important. But even up until you know, recent years,
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I have to admit I would you know, I would
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sometimes hear myself saying things like, you know, youth is
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wasted on the young, Getting old sucks, things like this.
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You know, you know I had allowed those those ideas
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about aging to influence me. One thing that did help
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me was over the past decade. You know, you're something
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like sixties and new forties, seventies, a new fifty, and
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you know, I started embracing that, and that was kind
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of a helpful meme. And I started embracing that I'm
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really focused on optimizing my health and wellbeing, and I
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go to a whole routine not only in terms of
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body mind work in the morning, but also some affirmations
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around Instiningra said one hundred and seven. Mine is one
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hundred and eight healthy, wealthy, enlightened, thriving and serving. And
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I'm doing that little manto right to envision the possibility
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of living a long life and while being healthy and
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prospering and serving and you know, having a meaningful life, right.
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So I'm really glad that I've embraced that. But you
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know what you're talking about the power of these beliefs.
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This is what the summit is all about. And we
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know we've known this for a long time. Psychologically, we
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know it neurobiologically. Did our beliefs, whether their conscious or unconscious,
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really drive how we interpret life, how we and how
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we show up in life, and the results we create
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for ourselves in life. So it's just critically important. So
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once one sort of awakens to the untruth of these
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myths and that we can live a long, healthy life,
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you know, by doing a few of the right things
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and embracing healthy lifestyle and natural solutions to deal with
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issues we may have to deal with, and then you
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kind of open up to that world. There's this plethora
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of information today. I mean before you back back before
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the Internet, there was very limited information and it was
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curated by big Farma and big food, et cetera, et cetera.
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So we got limited information. Today there's just this plethora
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of information, and it's all over the map, and it
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can be very confusing, and some of it's accurate and
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some of it's maybe not so accurate, and and a
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lot of promises and so forth. So how do we
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filter this and find our way through? I know, going
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to your art of anti aging dot com website is
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one good place to start, But other than that, what
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kind of filters do we use to find our way
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through to maybe an accurate signal on the real truth
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around things that can help us enhance our well being
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and age in a healthy way and both longevity and
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health band.
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Yeah, well that's either your event or Ryan that's it. No, nothing,
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I'm kidding. But your event is a great start. And
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the word trust comes to mind. I do hope as
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many people have embraced them. I'm doing this for the
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right reasons and so trust is important. However, a step
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before then, let me go two steps before that. To
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answer that question, you brought up something regarding yourself, which
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I appreciate you opening the door on yourself like that,
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and it is one of the most fascinating and important
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aspects to understand about ourselves. We tend to believe, and
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we have Frion's believed that our brain controls us, right,
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and only in recent years doing a lot of really
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cool research, fascinating research, has it come to really strong
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light that just as much we have to be in
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control of our brain. It's the old brain is best friend,
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worst anime thing, right, and the brain can really do
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some severe damage to you if you let it. The
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beautiful thing is that there are so many ways to
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you know, and it's it's kind of weird talking about
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this when you think about it, because you know, using
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your brain to control your brain obviously it's our executive function,
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but for the sake of conversation, to grab more control
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over your brain through many means that you teach and
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have taught really well. It's say, you know, modern forms
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as well as traditional of meditation, even nature walking are
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so important to center yourself get away from this mass
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and true epidemic of chronic stress. That that you know,
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messes with our brains, our health, our lives, and stops us.
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So that's a huge one. But it's important to get
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control of your brain. I used to think that things
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like affirmations are a bunch of fluff, and now there's
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a lot of evidence on affirmations, simple affirmations, because what's
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going on. You're telling your brain this is the way
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it is, and you and your brain saying, oh, okay,
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you know, so why simply getting a firm grasp of
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your own beliefs about what aging means, and it's a okay.
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In fact, it's likely if you discover you have negative
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impressions of what getting older means, it's okay. And most
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people do I still do you noted? You do? Right?
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So this is not a one time deal. You routinely,
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you know, try to visit that and then just one
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of many ways is simply to write out the truth.
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Getting older to me means these are going to be
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the best years of my life, These are going to
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be the healthiest years of my life. If I have
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a health condition, I am going to improve. This once
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sounded like fluff to me until I dug in and
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realized and a lot of research has been done on
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this that these are telling your brain, I'm in control,
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and this is how it's going to be, and it's
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going to be wonderful. My health is going to improve,
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you know, physically, emotionally, mentally. So that's a very important
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thing to note in context of the question you're asking me,
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because there is a lot of health noise out there
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and there, and as long as we are susceptible to
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our emotions, our thoughts owning us and controlling us and
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whipping us around, all of these institutions will be able
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to maintain this invisible, sometimes visible excuse me, visible, but
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most often invisible control of us. The grocery store industry
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will be able to, you know, push our choices without
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us knowing it, to certain things at certain levels on
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the shelf, with the pretty music that we're not thinking
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about playing for a reason in the background, and so forth.
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The drug industry will continue to do what it does
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and make so many people believe drugs are healthcare, et cetera.
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If we are susceptible to that, and we're susceptible to that,
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when our emotions are not in our control, there's no
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bad emotion or good emotion it's simply about do you
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recognize and more so own them or are they owning you.
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So when we're susceptible, that is when all this noise
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and all the infinite now amount of health information can
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harm us. And it does. I've seen it. And it's
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also one of the biggest issues out there now. There
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is this overwhelm of health advice. I'm putting quotes surround
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that from every quarter today, you know, blogs, podcasts, social media,
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especially TV magazine, still so and so forth right, And
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this is a problem. This is a big problem when
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you are susceptible, because whoever words something well or catches
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your eye with the right image, or you know, works
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on your emotions in a certain way, we'll grab your
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attention and you'll be a passive consumer and you will
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possibly say, man, that sounds really good, you know that
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that supplement with ABC including by the way, a bunch
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of synthetic junk in it sounds like it's going to
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be a huge difference in my life and out. And
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you get sucked in, and you get sucked in, and
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social media is designed to suck you in and never
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let you go and keep you clicking and scrolling and
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scrolling forever, including so much of it about health advice
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quoting quote unquote again so again, when it starts with
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just like everything starts with having that ownership of your emotions,
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be they you know, stress or Joe, or any emotion
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at all, having that ownership, which is why your event
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is so wonderful, because it's so much about that right
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and and that ownership. Therefore, you know, you're able to
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see and properly, Let's put it that way. You know,
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from the heart as well as your mind, you're able
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to see far more properly and make informed choices that
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are truly good for you long term, not little dopamine
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hit you know type of choices, but long term choices.
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You're able to detect who can I trust? What organizations
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can I more so trust? Wait a minute, you know
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which ones I better back off and check out? You
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know what else has this organization put out? You're better
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able to make informed choices. Is this based on a
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variety of different experiences and evidence or are they really
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just about trying to sell me something?
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You know?
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By Night's short term here, you know that that is
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the most vital aspect to cut through the noise is
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to have no noise inside of yourself that's clouding your view.
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What if transformation isn't just about thinking differently, but feeling differently.
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not just our minds, but also the neural networks in
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our hearts and guts. This heart mind connection is the
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the link to learn more and start your journey today. Well,
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I'm really glad that you're you know, you're expressing both
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doing that work to clarify what what bleiefs am I holding?
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And you know, seeing where obviously if they're negative beliefs,
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knowing that they're going to have this impact, so working
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to kind of deconstruct those and create positive beliefs. But
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also this sense of agency because we've all been trained.
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Anyone who grew up in the post World War t
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where Baby Boomers and beyond then the millennials and the
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generation and ze everyone in this has been indoctrinated their
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whole lives to become passive consumers. We've all been trained
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to be passive consumers. And so the question will be, well,
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where can I get the right information? Just tell me,
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appoint me to where I can get the right information,
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which is still kind of a passive consumer approach. So
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I really do think we all have to embrace that agency.
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Now.
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I've developed a number of sources that I trust, that
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I know that are sources of various health information and
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products and so forth, and I know they have integrity
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I know their evidence bace, I know, and at the
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same time they don't always agree. So I realized I
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still have to kind of do my own research. I
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have to, you know, work with my own body and
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my own mind and try this and try that, so
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I can I can come up with a sphere of
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sources that I, you know, more or less trust because
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I trust they're doing good work, they have integrity. I
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still have to do my work to figure it out.
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There's no way around. If we really want to, you know,
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have the health and longevity that we're talking about, we
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have to embrace this quality of agency. So I'm really
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appreciating that you're emphasizing that, you know, your work is
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emphasized both natural solutions, natural products, and evidence based and
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I think that's just so important. And I wonder if
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you could talk about what you really mean by evidence
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based products and how do we know how do we
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extinguish the evidence based strategy solutions and products that are
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out there versus things that maybe sound good, have a
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lot of marketing behind them, but have not really been tested.
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Yeah, my mind just shot five different directions that I
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want to answer that question. That's a great question, and
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you know, first, let me note what you brought up
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again your previous answer, that you have a lot of
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sources that you have worked your self to find that
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you can trust. It's a wonderful thing to be able
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to find someone I hope like me and certainly like
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you for other people, because if you have enough trust,
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then you can check out what I have done all
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of this research on and what you have done this
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research on. And I will say this eight times out
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of ten. You know, you everyone listening, you know, may agree.
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It's okay not to agree. Sometimes it's okay if you
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recommend a product or something fleet and you know, nine eight,
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nine times out of ten people love it. But some
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people might not because we are different, of course, but
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that's no reason not to trust. We all know that.
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And regarding knowledge and natural health and evidence based the
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beautiful thing is that we have now we collectively, you know,
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as this research community, have a pretty clear line in
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on all of the most essential steps that people need
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to take to look the other best avoid disease, even
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overcome any disease, and live long. We have a pretty
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clear view. We're at the point now where you know,
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there's a lot of fine points, and there will be
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new discoveries forever, right, I mean, of course, and that's
562
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a wonderful thing. And there's a lot of fine point disagreements.
563
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I see a lot of arguments erupt over small points,
564
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and I'm like, okay, well that's fun for you, fine,
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but I hope you're taking the big step and encouraging
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others to take the big step behind that. Should you
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eat olive oil? And how much is it bad? Or
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you know, things like that. It's just like, that's kind
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of missing the point. The point is, you know, you
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take the big essential steps and you'll be okay if
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you're if it's not great to eat olive oil, but
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you should be, or you should be but you're not.
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You'll be okay if you're taking you know, the bigger
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picture steps. So about evidence, Well, again, I have been immersed.
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I'm a geek. I'm a geek. I I actually joy
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white papers and all this dense research, and I have
577
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enjoyed it for decades now. And I can state that
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I would never believe even most of the so called
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research studies related to anything pharmaceutical, because you dig into
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00:35:20.920 --> 00:35:24.840
that research and you will often, if not almost always,
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00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:28.960
find out that it's funded directly or indirectly by the
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pharmaceutical company or companies that benefit from it. I'm very
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skeptical of research that taut's a specific brand of food
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for the very same reasons. However, there are wonderful people
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in research institutions, and they're a vast minority doing research
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00:35:49.199 --> 00:35:53.000
on things come to mind like herbs and spices and
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00:35:53.119 --> 00:35:58.800
vegetables and fruits and exercise that have no gain, no connection.
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And I'm like, well, man, i am so happy these
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people still exist. They're not getting big funding, they're not
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in it for any money, unlike a lot of the
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researchers who are funded by you know, pharma, for example.
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And so you have to be able to determine source
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of information when you're looking at things, and intent is
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a huge one, and you know with that research is
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exactly what it's, you know what it states. You know,
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if there's one study showing something, and then what type
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of study and the extent of you know, that study.
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If there's one study, it's suggests something pretty good. If
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there's ten, it's suggesting something really good. If there's one,
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hundreds or thousands, you better believe it. And then the
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ultimate wonderful litmus test, and what does antiquity say about it?
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Because here's a beautiful thing I've seen over the decades,
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so many concepts from antiquity, from ancient forms of medicine,
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all of a sudden become all the rage because science
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showed what it's true. They were right for the most
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part about this stuff. Whatever it may be. Termeric, you know,
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certain fruits omla or Indian gooseberry comes to mind. I mean,
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so many different things that different cultural medicine institutions embrace
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for eons. Then when you see studies start showing they
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were right, you could pretty much be sure, Hey, they're
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onto something there. I brought up Indian gooseberry. Indian gooseberry
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omla is is highly embraced and has been for eons
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in the Aravateic medicine culture. This is just an example
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for folks, and it's it's not on the radar. I mean,
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many people listening here right in ar gonna be like,
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what are you even talking about? What is an Indian
617
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gooseberry omla? Well, it's a it's a it's a sour
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it's a sowerberry. It's hard to eat because it's so sour,
619
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so astringent, but it is simply sky high in antioxidants,
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including for example, vitamin C and others that have a
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massive positive impact excuse me on inflammation. It's great consuming
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it internally, it's great consuming it on your skin, where
623
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it boosts collagen levels and more in your skin, and
624
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you know, leads to much better looking skin and so forth.
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This is just one example I'm talking about, is that
626
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when antiquity, you know, when ancient times embrace something and
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then science digs in and says, yep, yep, yep, yep,
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you can be pretty don't sure the evidence can be
629
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trusted on that thing. And that's the kind of evidence
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I like to put out their most still fault absolutely.
631
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And I know you've you've spoken a lot about the
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toxins that can really lead to disease and impact our lives.
633
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And now you're both both toxins that could be in
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the environment and the food, but also mental toxins, and
635
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so I wonder if you could talk about a little
636
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bit about that so that we can kind of see
637
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what we're up against and then how we can embrace
638
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a lifestyle and choices that are going to maybe limit
639
00:39:16.920 --> 00:39:20.119
our exposure to toxins, but also then get some of
640
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the anti toxins and the nutrients that can override that
641
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exposure that we have, right.
642
00:39:27.519 --> 00:39:32.559
Great question again, so well, certainly incorrect beliefs about aging
643
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are a massive mental talks toxin, there's fire, there's more,
644
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you know, there's a lot more in fact, again spreading
645
00:39:41.480 --> 00:39:47.679
concept out wider. You know, so many people rightfully pay
646
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close attention to insights about healthy diet and healthy exercise choices,
647
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for example, and the big issues out there, the big
648
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problems regarding poor di that are so pervasive, and lack
649
00:40:03.159 --> 00:40:06.880
of exercise, sitting too much, those are not really problems.
650
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Those are by products of the big problem. And the
651
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big problem really is mental slash emotional, if you will, tuxins.
652
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And what I mean by that is not just this
653
00:40:18.079 --> 00:40:23.679
perception of aging. We are the biggest enemy to our
654
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health is not out there, it's within us. It's inside
655
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of us, most of us, many of us to some extent,
656
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all of us. And that is starts with I guess
657
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the one word I would say is fear. If you
658
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don't feel very safe, including with yourself and loving with yourself,
659
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starting safe and loving with yourself and therefore safe and
660
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loving with the rest of the world. Again, you've got
661
00:40:53.360 --> 00:40:58.000
a huge barrier, and you can eat as right as possible, exercise,
662
00:40:58.360 --> 00:41:01.679
you are still bound to experience health issues that you
663
00:41:01.760 --> 00:41:06.199
should not experience. The biggest toxin of all, again, is
664
00:41:07.000 --> 00:41:10.239
kind of already inside most of us. You'll never completely
665
00:41:10.440 --> 00:41:12.679
eliminate And that's okay, that's not the point. The point
666
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is to become aware of it and work toward reducing it.
667
00:41:17.159 --> 00:41:20.079
A word comes to mind, forgiveness, and people hear this
668
00:41:20.440 --> 00:41:22.719
and they nod and they're like yeah, and then many
669
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of them ignore that concept after a short discussion and
670
00:41:26.199 --> 00:41:28.440
want to go find what's the best thing I should eat,
671
00:41:28.480 --> 00:41:32.679
what's the pill I should take. But it's huge inside
672
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your heart. If you don't have forgiveness for yourself, for
673
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something or someone else, If you don't have that, you're
674
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going to be hard pressed to really improve your health
675
00:41:43.880 --> 00:41:47.559
in any significant ways. These these are internal or mental
676
00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:52.000
emotional toxins that are bigger than anything else out there
677
00:41:52.039 --> 00:41:56.039
in terms of stopping you from achieving healthy aging and longevity,
678
00:41:56.079 --> 00:41:59.519
extending the length and quality of your life. So I
679
00:41:59.559 --> 00:42:02.679
want to know that now in a physical sense, I
680
00:42:02.760 --> 00:42:06.559
do want to state really make let me make this
681
00:42:06.599 --> 00:42:14.039
statement real quickly. So chronic stress and physical toxicants twenty
682
00:42:14.119 --> 00:42:16.639
years from now, thirty years from now will look back
683
00:42:16.679 --> 00:42:21.159
on these times and those two issues will be recognized,
684
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they're not quite enough yet, will be recognized as the
685
00:42:24.519 --> 00:42:28.840
worst issues that we face e true epidemics of our time.
686
00:42:29.679 --> 00:42:34.320
Chronic stress, anxiety and all that contributes to it. And
687
00:42:34.360 --> 00:42:40.079
then physical toxicants that are in absolutely everything we're surrounding
688
00:42:40.119 --> 00:42:43.880
ourselves with these days, from cosmetics, personal care products of course,
689
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foods our water, municipal water supplies which doesn't even test
690
00:42:47.679 --> 00:42:50.599
for most of them, the error especially inside homes and
691
00:42:50.639 --> 00:42:54.639
so forth. These are going to be recognized as the
692
00:42:54.800 --> 00:43:00.440
worst problems that our current society has faced. There's not
693
00:43:00.639 --> 00:43:03.559
enough awareness of either of those. So the chronic stresses
694
00:43:03.599 --> 00:43:08.360
again more so that mental emotional stress, and it starts
695
00:43:08.400 --> 00:43:11.599
with the basis of fear. You are afraid of something
696
00:43:11.639 --> 00:43:15.960
when you experience anxiety and chronic stress. And on the
697
00:43:16.079 --> 00:43:21.079
physical side that is lack of awareness. And everyone says, well,
698
00:43:21.280 --> 00:43:22.960
they're everywhere, What am I going to do about it? Well,
699
00:43:23.440 --> 00:43:25.320
you're never going to eliminate all of them. That's not
700
00:43:25.400 --> 00:43:27.639
the point. The point is there are certain areas where
701
00:43:27.639 --> 00:43:30.679
it's very important to reduce. And the beautiful thing on
702
00:43:30.920 --> 00:43:35.440
both of these fronts, the mental emotional toxins and the
703
00:43:35.480 --> 00:43:41.840
physical toxicants is just reduction of them makes a tremendous
704
00:43:41.880 --> 00:43:44.679
difference to your health and longevity, not to mention your
705
00:43:44.840 --> 00:43:47.159
energy levels and your joy.
706
00:43:48.559 --> 00:43:51.559
I'm glad you're pointing to the internal work, because I mean,
707
00:43:51.599 --> 00:43:53.760
there is so much we can do to reduce our
708
00:43:53.800 --> 00:43:57.480
exposure to toxins, physical toxins and our food, the environment,
709
00:43:57.559 --> 00:44:00.159
the water, the air, and so forth. And then know,
710
00:44:00.360 --> 00:44:05.400
healthy diet, exercise, you know, breathing, all the things we
711
00:44:05.440 --> 00:44:07.960
can do. But there's that internal work.
712
00:44:09.199 --> 00:44:09.360
You know.
713
00:44:09.400 --> 00:44:11.519
I share a bit of your experience growing up in
714
00:44:11.559 --> 00:44:14.880
an alcoholic family. Myself and so many of us are
715
00:44:14.920 --> 00:44:20.320
sitting on completely unprocessed undealt with grief, anger, even rage,
716
00:44:20.760 --> 00:44:23.639
and we haven't even started to work to get to
717
00:44:23.679 --> 00:44:27.000
where we could forgive ourselves and and this can really
718
00:44:27.039 --> 00:44:29.000
impact our lives, even if we're doing a lot of
719
00:44:29.039 --> 00:44:31.480
the right things, if we haven't done that internal work.
720
00:44:31.559 --> 00:44:34.000
So I think it's I really appreciate that you pointed
721
00:44:34.039 --> 00:44:38.360
to that to doing the work to heal, you know,
722
00:44:38.800 --> 00:44:40.960
to deal with and heal our past, whatever it is
723
00:44:41.000 --> 00:44:43.880
to be able to forgive ourselves, to forgive our parents,
724
00:44:43.960 --> 00:44:47.039
to forgive our grandparents. Now, forgiving them often means being
725
00:44:47.199 --> 00:44:49.960
getting permission to be angry, to begin with, right to
726
00:44:50.000 --> 00:44:52.480
acknowledge what really happened, to acknowledge the things that we
727
00:44:52.480 --> 00:44:54.360
should have received that we didn't, the things that we
728
00:44:54.440 --> 00:44:57.119
did receive that we shouldn't have to acknowledge those have
729
00:44:57.159 --> 00:44:58.840
our feelings about it. But then to find our way
730
00:44:58.840 --> 00:45:01.320
into forgiveness, we have to kind of clear up that
731
00:45:01.440 --> 00:45:03.760
internal environment, and then we're going to find it so
732
00:45:03.840 --> 00:45:07.280
much easier, because often even though we know about all
733
00:45:07.280 --> 00:45:09.159
the good things we need to do, we don't find
734
00:45:09.159 --> 00:45:12.719
ourselves doing it, or it's one step forward, two steps back,
735
00:45:12.840 --> 00:45:15.039
or best two steps forward, one step back, when we
736
00:45:15.079 --> 00:45:18.639
find ourselves even though we have good information, behaving in
737
00:45:18.719 --> 00:45:21.239
ways that are to our own detriment, and a lot
738
00:45:21.239 --> 00:45:23.920
of that I think is driven because we haven't done
739
00:45:23.920 --> 00:45:26.760
that internal work, and we're still dealing with so much
740
00:45:26.800 --> 00:45:31.239
internal conditioning and fear and anxiety and unprocessed grief and
741
00:45:31.280 --> 00:45:33.800
anger and so forth. So I'm really glad that you
742
00:45:33.880 --> 00:45:37.320
point to that internal work. I think it's incredibly important
743
00:45:37.360 --> 00:45:39.320
so I mean this may sound like a big challenge
744
00:45:39.360 --> 00:45:41.920
to all of us, but again it's like, if we
745
00:45:42.000 --> 00:45:45.039
want to thrive in life, it's about accepting the agency
746
00:45:45.079 --> 00:45:47.360
that we need to do our internal work, and then
747
00:45:47.400 --> 00:45:51.039
we need to get internal intelligent about how we're engaging
748
00:45:51.039 --> 00:45:53.280
in life and what we're consuming and so forth.
749
00:45:53.679 --> 00:45:58.400
Yeah, right, Well, heal your past and also heal your present.
750
00:45:59.000 --> 00:46:04.199
Not only is it last you know issues including you know,
751
00:46:04.320 --> 00:46:09.519
anger perhaps at yourself, certainly others. As you noted, it's
752
00:46:09.559 --> 00:46:16.360
also present issues often that come about fleet because we
753
00:46:16.760 --> 00:46:21.920
don't have that well control that is a big word,
754
00:46:21.960 --> 00:46:25.599
but control over our emotions versus them controlling us. Now
755
00:46:25.679 --> 00:46:28.719
here's one in a little People don't necessarily love me
756
00:46:28.840 --> 00:46:31.960
when I bring this one up, but nonetheless I believe
757
00:46:31.960 --> 00:46:34.159
it's true. And you know, again based on a lot
758
00:46:34.159 --> 00:46:40.960
of research, what I've seen is confirmation bias today, not
759
00:46:41.519 --> 00:46:43.360
for anything that happened in the past, but there's so
760
00:46:43.400 --> 00:46:47.000
many people who are very angry at the other side.
761
00:46:47.599 --> 00:46:51.480
We know this from politics. You know, it's not just
762
00:46:51.840 --> 00:46:56.320
in politics, but there is a lot of side taking today.
763
00:46:56.639 --> 00:46:57.920
I'm not going to speak for you, but I can
764
00:46:57.960 --> 00:46:59.800
tell you over the course of years and decades from
765
00:46:59.840 --> 00:47:03.039
my I haven't seen it to this level in my
766
00:47:03.119 --> 00:47:06.719
lifetime that it is today. I think I heard during
767
00:47:06.760 --> 00:47:09.000
the United States a civil war it might have been,
768
00:47:09.079 --> 00:47:13.679
you know, equitable to that perhaps, But there's a lot
769
00:47:13.719 --> 00:47:16.360
of side taking in anger and that side is wrong
770
00:47:16.400 --> 00:47:19.199
and that side is wrong, and if they don't agree
771
00:47:19.239 --> 00:47:23.519
with me, they're bad people. And that's stressful. And guess
772
00:47:23.519 --> 00:47:26.960
what that is. That's fear. That's at its very basis again,
773
00:47:27.000 --> 00:47:30.960
that is the fear we're talking about. Confirmation bias means
774
00:47:31.440 --> 00:47:37.840
you gravitate toward whatever confirms your current beliefs. That's what
775
00:47:37.880 --> 00:47:42.760
confirmation biases. And the most one of the most important,
776
00:47:42.840 --> 00:47:47.440
wonderful things we can be is students not believe that
777
00:47:47.519 --> 00:47:51.920
we know everything. And I try every single day, and
778
00:47:51.960 --> 00:47:53.800
I have little quotes to remind me to do so,
779
00:47:53.880 --> 00:47:56.639
putting my student cap on and saying I could be wrong,
780
00:47:57.000 --> 00:47:59.880
could be wrong about everything. I could be wrong, And
781
00:48:00.079 --> 00:48:02.559
it's a hard thing. It's very humbling, and it's hard
782
00:48:02.559 --> 00:48:05.920
for my ego who wants to be right. But people
783
00:48:06.039 --> 00:48:11.760
are taken advantage of because of confirmation bias. And there
784
00:48:11.800 --> 00:48:17.000
are institutions media and I'll state these by name. Fox
785
00:48:17.079 --> 00:48:20.559
news on one side, CNN and MSNBC for example, on
786
00:48:20.599 --> 00:48:23.280
the other so called side, and so forth. People get
787
00:48:23.280 --> 00:48:28.000
the idea, these are four profit institutions laughing all the
788
00:48:28.039 --> 00:48:32.960
way to the bank. By yanking people around with confirmation bias,
789
00:48:33.280 --> 00:48:37.239
we're going to make them angry even angrier at the
790
00:48:37.320 --> 00:48:41.280
other side. That's what they do. I have been inside
791
00:48:41.320 --> 00:48:45.159
of media organizations like that. That is what they do. Consciously.
792
00:48:45.199 --> 00:48:49.280
It's very profitable for these institutions who are beholden to
793
00:48:49.400 --> 00:48:52.159
all of their stockholders. That's what they're doing to you.
794
00:48:52.400 --> 00:48:56.159
So there's present anger and fear inside of us that,
795
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as we talked about earlier, is being manipulated for there
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and it's awareness of that kind of thing, not just
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trauma that happened in our past, but that is a
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form of trauma. Really when you think about it, watching
799
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the media does it never feels great? Later you don't
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watch these shows and then you walk outside, Man, that
801
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was refreshing and uplifting to watch the latest Fox News
802
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or CNN. No, it's not. And that's your body telling
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you something wrong with that. There's something wrong with that.
804
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Maybe I should reduce that. And if I am going
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to partake and that be very conscious of what they're
806
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really trying to do to me. That's a traumatic event
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as well.
808
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Yeah, we could do a whole other conversation, a whole
809
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another summit on getting out of our confirmation bias bubbles,
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I think, which you're really doing us a lot of harm.
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It's helpful to oh that the world of marketing also
812
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understands the psychology of confirmation bias extremely well and obviously
813
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makes use of that to manipulate us. So coming back
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to the need for agency, and I really loved what
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you said about having that beginner's mind, that student mind,
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that you willing to set back. Maybe I've got this
817
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whole thing wrong, you know, continually having the humility to
818
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look and take a deeper look. And really, you know,
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you know, I have a kind of a healthy scientific mind,
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of a kind of pure scientific mind. I'm really I
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want to know the truth. I'm going to keep looking,
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I'm going to keep taking an objective assessment of how
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I'm experiencing what I'm in. Having that kind of mindset,
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it's like we've all been trained. I want to we
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can somebody else do that for me? Right? That's too
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hard to work? Right? Well, then we're going to get
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what we get in a lot of those sources, even
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some of the ones that are you know, marketing the
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natural stuff, are going to be using that psychology to
830
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manipulate us in ways, in ways that are not really
831
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in our best interests.
832
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So let's talk.
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More about what we can do. And in line with
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this agency, you mentioned before that our brain can be
835
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our best friend or our worst enemy. Right, our brain
836
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is highly conditioned, highly programmed supercomputer. But fortunately we are
837
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conscious beings and we have our executive function and the
838
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top down part of our brain, the conscious brain, where
839
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we can be literally reprogramming our own brain. And so
840
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part of this is that we understand neuroplasticity, that the
841
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brain is continually growing and changing and can grow and
842
00:51:21.480 --> 00:51:24.039
thrive throughout our lifespan. And there's a lot of things
843
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we can do. Everything we do that helps the body
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00:51:26.639 --> 00:51:28.599
be healthy will help the brain be healthy. But then
845
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with intentionality, we can also rewire the brain, rewire our
846
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beliefs to support all the things we're talking about here
847
00:51:35.039 --> 00:51:37.639
about health and wellbeing and longevity and health span and
848
00:51:37.719 --> 00:51:40.119
so forth. So I wonder if you could talk about
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the role of neuroplasticity in healthy aging.
850
00:51:44.599 --> 00:51:48.920
You're right right again, great question, And this may seem
851
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initially to contradict everything I just said, but it doesn't.
852
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It complements it. It's a two way stream you just
853
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alluded to that. What I mean is, you do need
854
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to address these mental emotional specs. However, by addressing the
855
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physical aspects, even if you don't necessarily start by addressing
856
00:52:05.760 --> 00:52:11.480
the mental slash emotional, you are building. It's like a
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workout to better be able to address the mental emotional
858
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and get control. What I mean is, for example, exercise.
859
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So if you talk about neuroplasticity and from a physical perspective,
860
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there's probably nothing that research shows as more effective for
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00:52:28.559 --> 00:52:32.760
neuroplasticity for increasing the you know, essentially your brain power,
862
00:52:32.800 --> 00:52:35.840
the neurons in your brain, which is wonderful news. You know,
863
00:52:36.119 --> 00:52:38.559
twenty years ago, thirty years ago, we didn't even think
864
00:52:38.599 --> 00:52:42.880
you could do this. Many didn't at least, and now
865
00:52:43.000 --> 00:52:46.639
again science research that's not true. You certainly can to
866
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a physical level basically increase your brain power and capacity,
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including you know, ability to focus more. This is what
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00:52:55.800 --> 00:52:57.519
I mean, by the way, when I say these ought
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to be the best years of your life, even physically,
870
00:52:59.519 --> 00:53:03.880
because we can do that. So exercise is shown if
871
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you're incapable at this point of addressing a lot of
872
00:53:08.440 --> 00:53:15.199
deep seated emotional challenges Layman's terms, go exercise, Start exercising,
873
00:53:15.440 --> 00:53:19.960
because it's working out, it's increasing your ability to properly
874
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think and and equip you to better think through those
875
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:27.280
things that are stopping you. So that's what I mean.
876
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It's a two way street. The the a lot of
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the work that you have really helped put on the
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map and rightfully sew, and then a lot of the
879
00:53:37.559 --> 00:53:44.599
more physical approaches diet exercise certainly eliminating physical toxicans. They
880
00:53:44.639 --> 00:53:47.599
work the other way and were holistic right, and so
881
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it's both of these is the solution. And you brought
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that up. So I'd say, you know, if I had
883
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to pick one thing you know, to do to increase neuroplasticity,
884
00:53:58.000 --> 00:53:59.800
it would be exercised. But you don't have to pick
885
00:53:59.840 --> 00:54:05.079
one thing because there's many things physical exercise. There's a
886
00:54:05.679 --> 00:54:08.719
course mindfulness and meditation that's the other one thing. So
887
00:54:08.800 --> 00:54:11.400
there's not one thing. I'm cheating already because there's a
888
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bunch of one things mindfulness, meditation, exercise. Clearly diet in
889
00:54:16.840 --> 00:54:21.840
terms of as important what you avoid as what you
890
00:54:21.920 --> 00:54:25.360
put in. I will say on the dietary front say,
891
00:54:25.400 --> 00:54:28.400
I can go deep into any of these, and I'm passionate,
892
00:54:28.440 --> 00:54:30.440
as you can tell, and I want to. But in
893
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very brief you've heard this one before, and it's very true.
894
00:54:34.280 --> 00:54:39.559
Reduce those processed foods, those refined grains, the sugars, not
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00:54:39.679 --> 00:54:42.239
on learning. Are they an enemy to your heart and
896
00:54:42.280 --> 00:54:44.880
every other organ in your body. They're a huge enemy
897
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to your brain and your ability to regenerate your brain.
898
00:54:47.880 --> 00:54:50.360
They're a huge enemy. I don't need to talk much
899
00:54:50.360 --> 00:54:52.079
more about that. I think that's been covered well, but
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if I do, I will. And then on the flip side,
901
00:54:56.079 --> 00:54:58.840
people say, increase vegetables and fruits, and that's true. What
902
00:54:59.000 --> 00:55:01.519
you really want to to increase. One of the things
903
00:55:01.559 --> 00:55:06.800
is antioxidants. Human beings today in this country, and probably
904
00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:09.199
I could confidently say most of the world today, the
905
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Western world for sure, do not eat not only nearly
906
00:55:13.239 --> 00:55:18.679
enough fruits, veggies, herbs, spices, grains, seeds, but range. People
907
00:55:18.719 --> 00:55:23.039
forget range. Range is just as important as volume, and
908
00:55:23.199 --> 00:55:27.400
people get caught fleet in a rut of eating the
909
00:55:27.480 --> 00:55:30.559
same seven eight, nine, ten different fruits and veggies and
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herbs and spices over and over and over. That is
911
00:55:33.440 --> 00:55:35.880
not doing you any good. It's not doing you bad, okay,
912
00:55:36.440 --> 00:55:39.599
but it's not doing you nearly as good as if
913
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you put thirty different or so fruits herb spices into
914
00:55:44.639 --> 00:55:48.480
your diet routinely. Why because they contain a wide range
915
00:55:48.480 --> 00:55:52.039
of the antioxidants and these other compounds that, since we're
916
00:55:52.079 --> 00:55:56.719
talking about brain, greatly impact neuroplasticity, not to mention a
917
00:55:56.719 --> 00:55:59.800
bunch of other health benefits in the body. So that's diet,
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and then of course sleep and I can go deep
919
00:56:03.440 --> 00:56:05.400
there too if you want, but I think we've we've
920
00:56:05.400 --> 00:56:07.599
heard that it's it's vital. I can give tips on
921
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that front too. And then the most interesting one for neuroplasticity,
922
00:56:12.760 --> 00:56:17.079
interesting to me, fascinating to me is exercising your brain.
923
00:56:17.199 --> 00:56:19.719
And what that means is people have heard do so do?
924
00:56:20.320 --> 00:56:24.000
How do you pronounce it? Soku? Soku? And puzzles and stuff. Okay,
925
00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:29.119
that's level one, but really, really what's important is to
926
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have new experiences and engage in new learning activities that
927
00:56:34.960 --> 00:56:40.119
go well beyond that challenge your brain, especially if you
928
00:56:40.119 --> 00:56:43.960
can incorporate your brain and your body with more complicated
929
00:56:44.239 --> 00:56:49.559
new learning activities good old examples, learning a new language,
930
00:56:50.039 --> 00:56:53.480
going to a dance class is wonderful. Why because it's
931
00:56:53.480 --> 00:56:56.719
a mental activity and a physical activity where you have
932
00:56:56.800 --> 00:57:02.360
to do some complicated steps. Fantastic Gardening can be really
933
00:57:02.400 --> 00:57:05.639
strong for this, especially if you're a aggressive I call
934
00:57:05.760 --> 00:57:09.039
it gardener, meeting someone who's digging a lot, you know,
935
00:57:09.159 --> 00:57:12.599
stepping around all these plants, be they vegetables, fruits, whatever,
936
00:57:13.239 --> 00:57:17.039
or our flowers. You know, gardening is great. Just engage
937
00:57:17.039 --> 00:57:20.840
in new hobbies that the more they challenge your brain
938
00:57:20.960 --> 00:57:25.119
and your body, the merrier we're seeing that not only
939
00:57:25.239 --> 00:57:28.320
is it fun and fun is vital for healthy aging
940
00:57:28.320 --> 00:57:33.639
and longevity, but it's very key to neuroplasticity.
941
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I wonder if we could I love the just really
942
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global and holistic way you've covered that that territory, and
943
00:57:42.000 --> 00:57:44.119
again we could go in the great depth in any
944
00:57:44.159 --> 00:57:48.760
of those areas, but there that there are these things
945
00:57:48.800 --> 00:57:52.280
we can do and pay attention to that will increase neuroplasticity.
946
00:57:52.519 --> 00:57:55.679
And then if we have clear intentionality, we embrace that
947
00:57:55.760 --> 00:57:59.519
sense of agency and we're using positive affirmations and other things,
948
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and we can we can literally reprogram our brain in
949
00:58:03.840 --> 00:58:05.880
ways that are going to support going in a direction
950
00:58:05.960 --> 00:58:08.199
we want, and we'll find ourselves less and at one
951
00:58:08.199 --> 00:58:10.840
step foward, two steps back, because our brain will start
952
00:58:10.880 --> 00:58:13.559
cooperating with us. Right, And so you point to do
953
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a lot of things, and again you're absolutely right. There
954
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is nothing that increases neuroplasticity more than exercise. I've often
955
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used example with people. You know, often in your gyms,
956
00:58:24.440 --> 00:58:27.280
your workout studios, they have this long row of elliptical
957
00:58:27.320 --> 00:58:31.599
machines or or or becoming bicycles and so forth, and
958
00:58:31.559 --> 00:58:33.800
then they have all the television screens up there, right,
959
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So get out there and get your heart pumping, and
960
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them your watching reality TV probably not a good idea,
961
00:58:39.440 --> 00:58:42.039
or the news probably not a good idea. Put out
962
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a nice nature movie or something right.
963
00:58:44.599 --> 00:58:49.519
Put on this events actually absolutely absolutely so.
964
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I wonder if we could talk a little bit about
965
00:58:51.920 --> 00:58:55.679
the spiritual dimension of all this. You use the term
966
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sacred spaces and protecting the sacred space of your body
967
00:58:59.559 --> 00:59:01.360
and your mind, and in that sense of you know,
968
00:59:01.440 --> 00:59:05.000
spirituality will mean different things to different people, but you
969
00:59:05.039 --> 00:59:09.960
know it is we can really get into the neurobiology,
970
00:59:10.000 --> 00:59:12.039
and we can get into the physicality of it, and
971
00:59:12.079 --> 00:59:15.719
we can talk about mindset, and there is some we
972
00:59:15.840 --> 00:59:18.760
all know we censor, some greater thing that we tap
973
00:59:18.840 --> 00:59:21.679
into that gives meaning, a purpose to our life and
974
00:59:21.760 --> 00:59:23.960
gives you know, kind of the wind that are back
975
00:59:24.000 --> 00:59:27.440
a little bit if we're tuned into something sort of
976
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deeper than just our limited, limited self, so to speak.
977
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So I wonder if you could talk about the spiritual
978
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dimension of healthy aging and longevity and this idea of
979
00:59:37.320 --> 00:59:39.920
sacred spaces and protecting sacred spaces.
980
00:59:40.360 --> 00:59:45.639
Absolutely, and it's clearly, clearly vital and it does not matter,
981
00:59:45.719 --> 00:59:50.039
like you noted, what your beliefs you know, may be
982
00:59:50.280 --> 00:59:53.079
about where we come from, if you're a member of
983
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any different sort of church. At the end of the day,
984
00:59:57.519 --> 01:00:02.239
it is a miracle really that we're here right at all.
985
01:00:02.760 --> 01:00:06.880
And I think many, if not most, people can identify
986
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with moments in their life which I encourage you to
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01:00:09.199 --> 01:00:11.920
go back to if you've lost them, where you get
988
01:00:11.920 --> 01:00:15.960
this sense of oh, wow, I am part of this
989
01:00:16.960 --> 01:00:22.079
something much bigger things which I'm fascinated by, I'm honored,
990
01:00:22.920 --> 01:00:26.480
touched humbled by in awe of awe is a big word,
991
01:00:27.880 --> 01:00:31.880
and that have that big feeling go out at night,
992
01:00:32.159 --> 01:00:34.559
go back and lay under the stars if you're able
993
01:00:34.599 --> 01:00:36.519
to see them. To get that feeling, just go out
994
01:00:36.559 --> 01:00:40.480
in nature somewhere, you know, anything, that's just one example
995
01:00:40.559 --> 01:00:43.400
comes to mind that aspires this so called awe and
996
01:00:43.480 --> 01:00:47.360
this feeling of connection to a greater thing. And then
997
01:00:48.079 --> 01:00:51.800
you know you can also through often you know, mindfulness.
998
01:00:52.119 --> 01:00:56.679
Simply focus on your body and your being, not just
999
01:00:56.719 --> 01:01:00.320
your body, but you're being, and just realize it's amazing.
1000
01:01:00.639 --> 01:01:04.639
It's amazing on every level that you are here and
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01:01:04.800 --> 01:01:08.920
find ways back to that awe is so important in
1002
01:01:08.960 --> 01:01:12.039
the sense, the sense of something greater, and how amazing
1003
01:01:12.159 --> 01:01:15.440
this is. How grateful you think about that. You know,
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01:01:15.880 --> 01:01:19.000
we talk about miracles, miracles. It's a miracle that I'm
1005
01:01:19.039 --> 01:01:20.920
sitting here talking to you. It's a miracle you woke
1006
01:01:21.000 --> 01:01:22.760
up this morning, and that I woke up this morning,
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01:01:22.760 --> 01:01:24.800
and that we were born, and so on and so forth,
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01:01:25.239 --> 01:01:28.840
and again there's scientific basis to this that this sounds
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01:01:28.960 --> 01:01:32.639
fluffy to any listener. I'm a very science person, you know,
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01:01:33.159 --> 01:01:37.199
but there is much greater. The one thing I could
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01:01:37.199 --> 01:01:40.440
tell you science has found most often than anything else
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01:01:40.519 --> 01:01:42.480
is that we don't have the answers. It always opens
1013
01:01:42.480 --> 01:01:46.800
the door to new questions, right, and so it will
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01:01:46.840 --> 01:01:49.960
be because we're human and we don't have all those answers.
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01:01:49.960 --> 01:01:53.559
And so when you get that recognition, you also recognize
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01:01:53.559 --> 01:01:56.480
how sacred you are. And by you again, I mean
1017
01:01:56.519 --> 01:01:59.199
your physical body, but your entire being, your mental and
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01:01:59.239 --> 01:02:03.440
emotional health. For the sake of this discussion, mental emotional,
1019
01:02:03.480 --> 01:02:09.480
physical health, and really your ability to live long and
1020
01:02:09.840 --> 01:02:15.119
thrive while living long boils down to what you allow
1021
01:02:16.119 --> 01:02:21.119
into that sacred space and what you strive to keep
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01:02:21.159 --> 01:02:24.800
out of that sacred space, and also, to some extent,
1023
01:02:24.840 --> 01:02:26.840
what you strive to get out that might already be
1024
01:02:26.880 --> 01:02:29.400
inside of you that doesn't really belong there. We talked
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01:02:29.440 --> 01:02:31.840
a lot about that there are very physical toxic and
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so that you want to eliminate, and as we discussed
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a lot as certainly some mental emotional toxic toxins that
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you want to get out of your body. So what
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01:02:42.440 --> 01:02:46.119
are you allowing into your being? What are you striving
1030
01:02:46.159 --> 01:02:49.719
to keep out, What do you need to work on
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to potentially get out. It's a very oversimplified, admittedly, but
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a healthy way to start by looking at your being,
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because that is your sacred space, is this is what
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you have dominion, is your being, and it's a gift,
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and it's a gift and a constant work toward taking
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the time to re establish with that fact is important,
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which again has done through different types of mindfulness. So
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I say to people, go out there and do nothing,
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and it's some of the most important work you can
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do if you just go again my example, because it
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works for me, will wander deep into nature, layout under
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the stars or even no stars or one star at night.
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Do nothing. It's some of the most important work you
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can do that will help you reconnect to that all
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to how sacred you are.
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Well, Brian, this has been incredibly illuminating, and there are
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so many different rabbit holes we could have gone down
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with you, and I could have interviewed you for any
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one of the days of this summit. Today we're focused
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on longevity and healthy aging, and so I want to
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ask in a moment where people can find out more
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about your work. But I also want to come back
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to where you really started our conversation, that there really
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isn't any reason, any biological reason why most of us
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can't live well into our nineties or beyond. And not
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only that that we cannot do that no reason we
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can't do that in a healthy way where we're enjoying
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our life and have quality of life into our nineties
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and beyond. And I think that's a powerful message, and
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that is you know, as we you know that old
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I mentioned earlier that I've been guilty of saying that thing,
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you know, youth is wasted on the young. Well, that's
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based on the idea that we developed more and more
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wisdom as we grow older. We've developed more and more discernment,
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so it'd be nice to have the health to go
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along with that. And what you're saying is we can
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have the health to go along with that and be
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vital and thriving into later years of life. So it's
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such a powerful message and such a positive affirmation of
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what life is all about. So thank you so much
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for that. So where can people find out more about
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your work?
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Sure, super summary go to the Art of Antiaging dot com.
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While you're there, sign up if you're so inclined for
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the newsletter. We're always giving away some really exceptional We
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put a lot of work into these bonus reports and
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we change them up, So check out whatever free bonus
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If you are so inclined so all free, of course,
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check out our blog. We also, I'm proud of that
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because we pour a lot of work into exceptional articles,
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again evidence based on topics that really matter to people.
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That's the art of antiaging dot com. And then you know,
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we touched on you know, toxicins in so many products.
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This includes cosmetics and personal care to an extent that
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most people still would not believe. So that's the real
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short story version of why I started Purity Woods, which
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is just entirely USD a certified organic skincare as well
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as a couple key types of supplements for healthy aging. Now,
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supplements are also typically loaded with junk that you don't want,
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so for that, if you're interested in go to Puritywoods
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dot com. And yeah, thank you you did such a
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beautiful job. By the way of summing up what I
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had started saying at the start, that I could tell
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that you have poured extensive heart effort yourself into this.
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I love what you're doing here Fleet. By the way,
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you're a gift. Speaking of gifts, you are a gift,
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my friend. So thank you for having me here.
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Well, thank you so much, Brian, Thank you so much
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for the work that you do and I really encourage
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your audience to go check out your work. So thank you,
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Thank you for joining me on the Radical Responsibility Podcast. Remember,
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real change happens when we commit to our growth, face
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our challenges with compassion, and stay open to transformation. If
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you found this episode help, I encourage you to subscribe
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and help us spread the message of healing and personal empowerment.
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Until next time, stay grounded, stay present and day true
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to yourself. Take care